Psychological ED Question
I haven’t been on here for a while so forgive me if it wasn’t appropriate to make a new thread. If the mods want to merge this with another thread that they feel fit, go right ahead.
Well basically so I’m 25, pretty build and in shape, very healthy and I have a horrible case of psychological ED. Basically the one time I had a chance to have sex when I was younger my penis just did not work. I know I was too nervous and adrenaline kills erections and your muscles need to be relaxed to get a hard on. So ever seen thing I’ve just been self loathing and removed myself from any situation where I could possibly suffer that humiliation again.
Thing is I get very horny a lot, can get hard from porn or merely seeing a woman’s ass in those yoga pants and sometimes have to release the poison 3 times a day. So my unit still works.. Technically. I also know what a lot of you would think or say from reading that.
That I need to stop masturbating and stop looking at porn. Well I’ve tried that and it’s not that I can’t stop looking at porn or can’t stop masturbating, that’s that when I do I can feel my T levels drop. After 3 or 4 days of me not masturbating and ejaculating it’s like my body gets used to me not masturbating and stops producing as much T as before. The result is I stop feeling horny all together and get more depressed. That’s not a solution to me.
So fast forward to yesterday, I was in a situation where I was getting head from a chick and guess what; my dick once again refused to work. It wouldn’t get erect for me now matter what I was thinking. I was trying to be confident and convince myself it’s going to get hard so there was no reason to stress (but it didn’t). Tried a little deep breathing to calm myself even though I don’t think I was overly excited. Long story short, same shit different scenario.
So yeah that’s the story of my pathetic existence and I’ve researched Viagra, Cialis and their generic counter parts for years (mostly with the help of this forum). I must say though because my penis still works fine technically when not under pressure, I’m a little worried what the side effects could be. Also it didn’t help that I looked at these two pages and read a lot of testimonials from people who took those medications. From what I was reading most of them were pretty negative and I guess that’s scared me away from even asking my doctor about trying it.
(Web sites I was talking about)
So I guess this leads me to my last idea and probably possible option because I decide, this is just the way my sad little life is going to be until I die. That last option that I’m inquiring about is hypnosis. I know it’s a long shot but has anyone on this forum had any experience with hypnosis curing their psychological ED? I figured I’d ask here before going to ask someone who might be in that business and bullshit me and try to scam me. Sorry for the long post, it’s been a long day.
[5/22/07 - BPEL( 7.875) - NBPEL ( 7.1875) - EG (4.75)] [8/22/07 - BPEL( 8.0) - NBPEL ( 7.5) - EG (4.875)]
[12/22/07 - BPEL( 8.1875) - NBPEL ( 7.625) - EG (4.875)] [4/22/08 - BPEL( 8.357) - NBPEL ( 7.75) - EG (5)]
Goal: To gain that evasive girth I so desperately need.