Premature Ejaculation Solutions

Is that because you used to have a problem with premature ejaculation and you overcame it using these techniques?

Very true Dino about conditioning dicky not to spurt during jelqing.

When I get started I usually imagine a sexy woman I’d like to fuck… then once well under way my mind turns to karate forms from white to black belt. I usually last between 20 and 30 minutes and by then wifey has already cum. If she cums fast, I usually skip the mental karate forms.

I didn’t have a SERIOUS case of Premature Ejac., but I wouldn’t last longer than 5 minutes or so. Now I can go for 45 minutes to hour and a half no problem.

And yes it was due to the reasons I previously listed.

Cool! I’m into Shaolin kung-fu. There are some wonderful forms, but when I start thinking about un-sexy things, I start to lose my erection!

Kegels didnt do anything for me but make me blow quicker. I dont ahve the patience to wait months to see if it works when I have sex with the wife 2-4 times a week. I was never a quick trigger but when I started kegeling I turned into one. Nope I am not going back to them.

Edging helped me prolong ejaculation pretty quickly.

just my two cents.

I´ve experienced the same thing. I have to be very careful when kegeling because they can make me come faster, but as time goes on, I am seeing progress and understanding how exactly have a benefit from them.

At first, your penis gets stimulated by pushing more blood in, but as you progress, you’ll be able to hold back an orgasm, or just shut a load without actually orgasming.

There is a lot of research going on into drugs which will delay ejaculation, premature ejaculation being the most common sexual complaint of men by far; more than ED.

The problem in developing these drugs, which are not SRRI antidepressants, btw, is in side effects. Yawning in one promising one, nausea in another being tested - neither of which is fun for the user or a turn-on to the sex partner.

However, look to Johnson & Johnson in the fairly near future for an “on-demand” drug (meaning, you don’t need to take it continuously) that will hold you off for a significant amount of time and which will hopefully not give negative side effects.

Fingers crossed!

>>>Cool! I’m into Shaolin kung-fu.

I practice Shaolin Chin Na now (3 years) …. and Taekwondo (12 years). I also go to pressure point seminars and enjoy that too.

When I get into a rhythm, I need to mentally distract myself from my dick but somehow remain hard. Forms keep my mind occupied as I fuck. It’s all good!

I used to think of my mother in law to keep from cumming… but that was a bad idea!

Maybe this will work….

Ever notice male porn stars? Notice how when they are really going at it, they’ll either be in a certain sitting position and barely move or they’ll be standing and slightly leaning forward or they’ll make these sort of robotic looking movements for example when going doggy? It seems they try and keep their hips in a certain position. I’ve noticed this alot.

When I jelq, and I need to increase my erection, I’ll thrust my hips forward, squeeze the cheeks and I can get hard very quickly (with normal stroking) because I get better sensation? In fact if I continued to thrust my hips, I’d probably blow. Know what I mean by this?

I noticed the other nite when having sex…. I wanted to try and go longer than I normally do. So I tried to focus on NOT thrusting my hips forward…Certain positions were harder, like missionary for example… Rather than trying to go bone to bone, I didn’t thrust all the way in and sorta stuck my butt out a tiny bit and it really seemed to make a difference..I went alot longer and way more vigorous than I normally do.

If you tried this when jelqing, you’d notice the difference in sensaton. Check out porn stars… they have to have some secret. Maybe this has something to do with it.

Oh and you’ll also notice they’ll pull out and slap their cock on the girl or whatever… I have heard this is to help them go longer as well… that and perhaps the little breaks with position change.

I always wondered why most (if not all) porn stars I seen only cum when they masturbate at the end of the video. Any ideas?

Also, I have been reading this thread with great interest. This “edging” technique sounds interesting.

I can confirm that this is true. I am fighting against the worst kind of premature ejaculation you can imagine. When I began, about a year ago, I would watch a porn movie and stimulate myself by touching my penis THROUGH MY UNDERWEAR! If I touched it directly, I would ejaculate immediately. Now, a year later, I can stimulate myself with a lubricated hand for some 20 minutes of edging. All this is while sitting comfortably or laying on my back. So I am almost ready to have a decent intercourse with a girl with her on top (and with condoms that contain some anestethical cream), but I still can’t thrust! If I do, I ejaculate. So, yes, it is true - thrusting shortens your lasting time.

I’ve just noticed chaconcarnes addition to this thread. I’ve also noticed that when I’m having sex, if my legs are spread wide, and I’m thrusting I will cum quicker than if my legs are closed together, and I’m thrusting.

Any idea why this is?

Certain anti-depressants will make it almost difficult to ejaculate. I often cut them in halves or quarters. 5-HTP will delay things, but must be timed right, or your sex drive will be replaced with sleepiness. A thicker lubricant desensitizes me. Deep breathing helps—ever notice that breathing becomes rapid and shallow when really aroused? Daily sex is also the best!