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Originally Posted by cardinal2
No man, I still struggle to get a full erection without vigorous masturbation for the most part. I’m thinking after 90 or so days I should be good though

Www.yourbrainonporn.com

STOP MASTURBATING PERIOD. You have taken yourself “out” due to overuse and the “grip of death.”

Originally Posted by carrbc
Made it to day 50! For some reason this last week has been incredibly tough. Not sure why.

Funny story - I have a monthly calendar that hangs on my wall at work, and, since I quit porn, I’ve counted up every day (e.g. My calendar today has a number 50 in the lower right corner), and I’ve highlighted every 30th day. Yesterday, my boss came into my office to talk about some scheduling and looked at my calendar and asked why I had a day highlighted on the calendar. It took a second to think up something, so I said it was something for my diet. Thankfully no other questions were asked because I probably would’ve been stumped!

Tell him it’s how long you’ve gone since the last murder.

I would, but I kind of need to be employed.


Start/April 2011: BPEL - 6.75" / NBPEL - 6.00" / BEG - 5.125 / Mid Shaft - 4.75 / Glans 4.5"

Current/August 8 2011: BPEL 7.25" / NBPEL - 6.375" / BEG - 5.625" / Mid Shaft - 5.00" / Glans - 4.875"

Goals: NBPEL - 8.25" / Mid Shaft EG - 6.00"

Originally Posted by ironaddict69
Www.yourbrainonporn.com

STOP MASTURBATING PERIOD. You have taken yourself “out” due to overuse and the “grip of death.”


Yeah I know I haven’t masturbated for like 18 days.


March 7th/2012 BPEL: 6.7 EG:4.6 June 4/13 BPEL 7.00 NBPEL 6.4 EG: 4.6

Short term goal: 7.0 NBPEL EG: 4.75

Coming back from a year long layoff.

Carrbc, your thread has struck a cord with me. Today I found enough courage an got my first day. I made the decision last night when I read this article on sexual exhaustion:
http://cure-erectile-dysfunction.or…xual-exhaustion

I threw away the 2 porn dvd’s I had and will do my best to stop and think about computer porn, before I do it. I gave up smoking 5 years ago, that was very tough. I can use what I’ve learned with smoking and apply it here. I found with smoking, if I could make it through the first 7 minutes, the craving went away, until 5 minutes went by an the next craving started. I really want to go orgasm free. This is the only way to ‘reset’ the brains chemicals. Simply staying away from porn will not do this.

I think I can do it tomorrow.


Starting stats 3/2/12: BPEL 5.625, EG 5.375, Flaccid L 3.50, Flaccid G 5.125, Mild to moderate ED

Goals: It's growing and looking good. ED is slightly better. 4/30

Hey man, glad to help. It’s tough at first… do whatever you can to avoid your computer until you feel like you’ve really got the recovery underway. If you have to use it to check email or something, get on their quick, check your email, and then shut it down!


Start/April 2011: BPEL - 6.75" / NBPEL - 6.00" / BEG - 5.125 / Mid Shaft - 4.75 / Glans 4.5"

Current/August 8 2011: BPEL 7.25" / NBPEL - 6.375" / BEG - 5.625" / Mid Shaft - 5.00" / Glans - 4.875"

Goals: NBPEL - 8.25" / Mid Shaft EG - 6.00"

Originally Posted by carrbc
Hey man, glad to help. It’s tough at first.. Do whatever you can to avoid your computer until you feel like you’ve really got the recovery underway. If you have to use it to check email or something, get on their quick, check your email, and then shut it down!

Very solid, good advice.

Bowie, you are correct that refraining from orgasm will reset the brain chemicals faster. The main thing is to not masturbate, because then we fantasize and most often it is about porn we have watched, thus re-starting the addiction loop. It is not clear as to whether sex can put a halt to things, definitely not as much, but abstinence would be a great place to start.

Originally Posted by ironaddict69
Very solid, good advice.

Bowie, you are correct that refraining from orgasm will reset the brain chemicals faster. The main thing is to not masturbate, because then we fantasize and most often it is about porn we have watched, thus re-starting the addiction loop. It is not clear as to whether sex can put a halt to things, definitely not as much, but abstinence would be a great place to start.

I’m definitely going to try to pass on the masturbation but my wife wants some sex. This morning I feel like I have no sex drive whatsoever. Sex with my wife is going to be a challenge if I continue feeling how I feel. I started reading the porn addiction link you posted. Some of those guys that posted there haven’t had their libido or erectile function return 100+ days into their detox.

Porn really is a bad thing. It should never be censored, but the truth about the consequences of abuse should really be made clear to the public.


Starting stats 3/2/12: BPEL 5.625, EG 5.375, Flaccid L 3.50, Flaccid G 5.125, Mild to moderate ED

Goals: It's growing and looking good. ED is slightly better. 4/30

Originally Posted by bowie knife
I’m definitely going to try to pass on the masturbation but my wife wants some sex. This morning I feel like I have no sex drive whatsoever. Sex with my wife is going to be a challenge if I continue feeling how I feel. I started reading the porn addiction link you posted. Some of those guys that posted there haven’t had their libido or erectile function return 100+ days into their detox.

Porn really is a bad thing. It should never be censored, but the truth about the consequences of abuse should really be made clear to the public.

Very true. I however got mine back really strong in about a month, then I fucked up again. Those guys are usually virgins, and have beaten their brain to shit with daily or multiple daily porn use, and have never even been with the real thing. Literal brain damage in my opinion, and rather pathetic. I know someone like this and he is incredibly passive and weak. That isn’t you.

Excellent point about brain damage, especially for virgins. A good reason to dissuade my son from Porn once he’s old enough to be interested in such things.


(12/5/2008) BPEL: 7.75" EG: 5.75" BSFL: 8.1" FL: 5" FG 4.25"||New Goal: NBPEL: 8" EG: 6"

Technique: 95% Wet Jelqing, 5% Low Vacuum Pumping

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Originally Posted by ironaddict69
Very true. I however got mine back really strong in about a month, then I fucked up again. Those guys are usually virgins, and have beaten their brain to shit with daily or multiple daily porn use, and have never even been with the real thing. Literal brain damage in my opinion, and rather pathetic. I know someone like this and he is incredibly passive and weak. That isn’t you.

ironaddict69 or anyone for that matter, here’s a cut and paste excerpt from the link: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ How deep is your problem with porn?

Here’s a simple comparison test to check for porn-induced ED:
1.Masturbate to your favorite porn.
2.Try to masturbate using no porn and no fantasy - only sensations. Masturbate with same speed and pressure as you would during intercourse.

Compare one and two. How erect was your penis? How long did it take you to reach orgasm? What was your level of excitement? A healthy young man should have no trouble attaining a full erection and masturbating to orgasm without porn or fantasy.
•If you have a strong erection on #1, but problems on #2, then you have porn-induced ED.
•If #2 is strong and solid, but you have trouble with a real partner, then you have anxiety induced ED
•If you have problems during both 1 & 2, you may have severe porn-induced ED, or an organic problem. When in doubt, see a good urologist.

The above test is helpful for some, but many men cannot maintain an erection even with porn.

Which type of ED problem are you experiencing? I’d say I have problems with both #1&2 as well as with my wife. This why I think my reset will take longer. I’m 52, in good shape, so I don’t think my problem is physiological.

Day two for me is down and in the books. I’m a little depressed and have no libido. My HRT doctor whom is a neuroendocrinologist / psychiatist, prescribed me Ropinirole to help boost my dopamine. I haven’t let the cat out of the bag about my porn addiction. He’s a smart guy, he probably already suspects this.

PT-141 works very well for boosting my libido as well. Here’s my thread: Anyone using PT-141?


Starting stats 3/2/12: BPEL 5.625, EG 5.375, Flaccid L 3.50, Flaccid G 5.125, Mild to moderate ED

Goals: It's growing and looking good. ED is slightly better. 4/30


Last edited by bowie knife : 06-19-2012 at .

Originally Posted by bowie knife
Ironaddict69 or anyone for that matter, here’s a cut and paste excerpt from the link: http://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ How deep is your problem with porn?

Here’s a simple comparison test to check for porn-induced ED:
1.Masturbate to your favorite porn.
2.Try to masturbate using no porn and no fantasy - only sensations. Masturbate with same speed and pressure as you would during intercourse.

Compare one and two. How erect was your penis? How long did it take you to reach orgasm? What was your level of excitement? A healthy young man should have no trouble attaining a full erection and masturbating to orgasm without porn or fantasy.
•If you have a strong erection on #1, but problems on #2, then you have porn-induced ED.
•If #2 is strong and solid, but you have trouble with a real partner, then you have anxiety induced ED
•If you have problems during both 1 & 2, you may have severe porn-induced ED, or an organic problem. When in doubt, see a good urologist.

The above test is helpful for some, but many men cannot maintain an erection even with porn.

Which type of ED problem are you experiencing? I’d say I have problems with both #1&2 as well as with my wife. This why I think my reset will take longer. I’m 52, in good shape, so I don’t think my problem is physiological.

Day two for me is down and in the books. I’m a little depressed and have no libido. My HRT doctor whom is a neuroendocrinologist / psychiatist, prescribed me Ropinirole to help boost my dopamine. I haven’t let the cat out of the bag about my porn addiction. He’s a smart guy, he probably already suspects this.

PT-141 works very well for boosting my libido as well. Here’s my thread: Anyone using PT-141?

Hey dude that is a very accurate and interesting way to gauge it. You are definitely right on the money.

I can get an erection in all of the scenarios. I get them from jelqing while watching a regular movie. It is my mind I am trying to “fix” and let my eyes get attracted to girls that arent super thin with huge tits, and appreciate girls that are “cute” instead of this fantasy we all create.

Nice carrbc. I will have to try this soon, as I keep loosing erection while having sex.


"If you always put limit on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." -Bruce Lee

Originally Posted by ironaddict69
Hey dude that is a very accurate and interesting way to gauge it. You are definitely right on the money.

I can get an erection in all of the scenarios. I get them from jelqing while watching a regular movie. It is my mind I am trying to “fix” and let my eyes get attracted to girls that arent super thin with huge tits, and appreciate girls that are “cute” instead of this fantasy we all create.

It sounds like your reboot will be quick and easy. mine on the otherhand will most likely be long and difficult since my ED is more serious.


Starting stats 3/2/12: BPEL 5.625, EG 5.375, Flaccid L 3.50, Flaccid G 5.125, Mild to moderate ED

Goals: It's growing and looking good. ED is slightly better. 4/30

carrbc,

I seem to have highjacked your thread with my stuff. I apologize for this. How have you been doing in your reboot?


Starting stats 3/2/12: BPEL 5.625, EG 5.375, Flaccid L 3.50, Flaccid G 5.125, Mild to moderate ED

Goals: It's growing and looking good. ED is slightly better. 4/30

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