Please help me...
Sorry this isn’t PE related, I’m pretty happy with my size, 6x5.5 for those who care. I have a much bigger problem.
I need to know if anyone here has ever dealt with performance anxiety issues. I have a wonderful, sweet girlfriend, and we are in love. She had never had a relationship that included sex until me. Anyway, the first couple of times we had sex, it was fantastic, it lasted 20-25 minutes, we both had orgasms, and I thought everything was great.
Suddenly, about two weeks ago, I hit a wall. I can get erections easily when I masturbate, I can get them when I’m getting a handjob, but I can’t keep one when we want to have sex, it’s like I’m afraid. I’ve even lost it once or twice during sex. This is really starting to get to me.
Has anyone experienced this before. I really want to please her, and let her enjoy herself to the fullest, but I feel like less of a guy every time this happens.
Oh, I should give a little background. This has happened to me before, but it was never with someone I cared about this much. I just need to know how to break the cycle of anxiety.
She and I have discussed it, and she has told me she loves me, sex isn’t our relationship, and she will back me 100% on everything I need to do, she just wants to be with me for who I am, so I’m confident and secure in her love and all. I just want to be able to give her everything.
Someone please tell me how to fix this.