Performance failure

Yep, it happened to me. I failed to get wood with a new girl on saturday night. She was cool about it, and wants to see me again, give me another shot :) I mean, I was working on liek no sleep and consumed too much alcohol in the past 2 days, but I don’t want this to happen again, plus the pressure is really on now.

I already ordered some cialis, but that wont be here for a few days at least, probably going to see her next on weds night. Does anyone know anything I can do short term to make sure I can get it done?

Yeah, get some sleep and don’t get smashed.

Your body was trying to tell you something, listen to it.

The C will help yes, but you shouldn’t be having that kind of problem if your body is well rested and you are in control of your faculties.

Just relax, man. It was the alcohol and sleep deprivation. Just live healthily for a week, work out, sleep well, ease of on the PE. Nothing to worry about.

Not jerking off will help too.

Something I’ve heard numerous people say: apparently, doing squats is a great help - it gets the testosterone up by working out a few of the biggest muscles in your body. I’ve also heard people say that since testosterone production is greatest in the morning, you will really feel the effects of squats in your morning wood. :)

Easier said than done my friend. Especially considering it’s finals week and I’ve got a boatload of school work.

I hear what you and sunny are saying about the drinking though, alcohol defintely isn’t good in the mix. Problem is now I’ve kind of got a mental block, with so much pressure to get an erection.

Thanks for the responses everyone.

I am reading a good book about being victimized. To parapharse: don’t let your own fear victimize yourself.

You just have to go in there with that attitude that you are as good a fuck as any one else. If it doesn’t come up then what have you lost? Try it again next time.

Don’t even think about having sex until that tension is out of your way, I_M.

That’s what I meant. I’ve had scares myself and freaked out. Wood (in this case) always returns in the end.

Good advice.

But you know I can’t follow it :D

This is all true, I usually never have any hang ups with confidence, this just came as a shock to me. Although in hind sight i shouldn’t have….

Good to know. I guess I was just scared because it happened to a good friend of mine a while bakc and he hasnt been able to get it done since, with a partner at least. I think I’ll be fine though.

Go to your local GNC and buy some horny goat week combo to assist with the wood.

Ya know this may sound funny but my wife and I argue alot about foreplay, but its not what you might think. I’m the one who wants more foreplay! It really helps my erection quality and hell I love it! She is with our 4 year old all day and just wants to fuck at the end of a long day, sorta to get it out of the way and I’m just the opposite, of course when we were in our 20’s it was she that wanted the foreplay! Aint life a bitch lol.

Update:

I was able to get it up but not get off. Probably because I was tired and partly because of being fucked in the head. Nonetheless I think she was happy. Instead the usualy ending when I ejaculate, we ended when we both were too sweaty and out of breath.

Yeah but did SHE get off?