Peculiar problem with staying - help please
Hello fellow PE practitioners!
I need your help concerning something. I have a premature ejaculation problem that is a bit atypical.
Let me explain. If I am with a new woman or girl, the first time I tend to come very quickly. Unless I jerk it off an hour before sex, I will come within a few minutes of intercourse, sometimes even a good blow job will make me go.
Yesterday I had a situation where I just couldn’t take it anymore. I jerked off about say 2:30 pm. At about 6 pm I came to a woman’s house, she jerked my cock a bit, sucked it some (not even really good) and I put it in her pussy, without a condom since she is on the pill. She asked me to go slow, which I did, really really slow, for the last half minute I didn’t even move, and I just went overboard. It was embarrassing.
Later, after a half an hour I got it up again, and fucked her and I could go on no problem. This was like the third occasion we had sex.
The only girl I didn’t have this problem with is my ex girlfriend, with who I could go for some time, I would watch my tempo, breathing, and such. I believe it was because I was relaxed around her.
The thing is that with a new girl I am so excited that I can’t even control my arousal levels. I can edge when I masturbate for an hour no problem, but with a new girl it’s always like I have no control for the first session.
And since I am not exactly a really potent fellow, my maximum was 4 times in one night, and that was without a condom and only on one occasion, I can’t rely on giving it a few times.
I must say that with a condom it is only slightly different, I can go maybe a minute more.
So I ask you, is there anybody out there who was in a situation like me and somehow became a marathon man?
Please guys, I would appreciate your help very very much, because I am going crazy. I am a very good looking guy, girl want to be with me, but I don’t want to be a disappointment.
Thanks in advance!