Only can ejaculate through 3 out of the 5!!!

I don’t know about hand jobs… but I’m guessing you will eventually orgasm from a blow job (from another person most likely, not your current gf). I say I’m guessing because I’m also still waiting for that “special” person who can do it for me.

BTW, usually, it takes me a solid 20 minutes to cum from a blowjob, but with the girl mentioned above, she could have made me cum in under 2 minutes if I didn’t tell her to slowdown.

I don’t mean to derail this thread and insert my ego here. I’m just explaining that how much the girl is into it is a major factor. It’s not your pipes that is the problem, it’s the brain mang.

You cats just need to hook up with the right chick. I had it made then I ruined it. I’ll explain in a bit. My wife gives a damn good blowjob 7,8, or 9 out of 10, depending on how much she was into it. Now I met this girl online, a little older, about 38. She was a nurse too :D and was absolutly obsessed with cum. I’m talking like an unhealthy obsession. When I first talked to her, I wasn’t really that interested in a blowjob until she said, “All you have to do is call me and ask, Cheryl, will you suck me off”

I was dumbfounded. Anyhow this girl started to get upset when I couldn’t meet her for her to swallow my cum. So after learning that she had been molested as a child, I actually felt bad and saw through the hidden meaning as to why she was doing this subconsciously. To have some control over a man, even if it’s just 10 minutes. But the confusing aspect was how much she loved the cum. Whooda thought?

I mean this girl really loved it, and it was evident in the way she sucked my cock. 10 out of 10. But, the difference is, she wanted it. I’ve never felt such a sensation before in my life. But, remember, this girl was obsessed and she knew how to work her way to that cream filled center, and fast. Not that she gave a fast blowjob, actually it was slow, but if you looked in the dictionary under “best blowjob” her picture would be right next to it. Anyhow, I believe, the primary factor in a good blowjob is

A. A woman that has some experience and has listened to a guy about what feels good and what doesn’t
B. More important - how much she actually gets into it.

See, there is a psychological aspect to this all that you might be forgetting. If your with a girl that wants you. If your with a girl that is telling you how much she wants you to cum and how much she wants to take your cum, trust me, your not going to last as nearly as long as a girl that is doing it as if it’s a chore.

BTW, usually, it takes me a solid 20 minutes to cum from a blowjob, but with the girl mentioned above, she could have made me cum in under 2 minutes if I didn’t tell her to slowdown.

I don’t mean to derail this thread and insert my ego here. I’m just explaining that how much the girl is into it is a major factor. It’s not your pipes that is the problem, it’s the brain mang.

In my opinion your “problems” are psycho-physiological, I.e., both mental and physical. I agree with others that they’re only problems for you. I’ve also never cum from a blowjob, as many as I’ve had and as much as I love them. Likewise from anal sex, which I’ve really only tried a couple of times (with relative disappointment). I agree a handjob is WORK to get off with, unless it’s your own hand - that’s because YOU know better than any partner what gets you off. Even with vaginal sex, my partner can’t make me shoot unless I want to. If you’re at all like me, you probably like to unload when you’re DEEP inside your partner. I’m sure I COULD get off with oral sex, but only if I were battering my partner’s face and deep in her throat, in which case my compassion for her gagging, tears, and discomfort would probably kill my effort before I got there! So, like you, I enjoy the head and try to get as far along as possible, then go for a nice deep dig in the place that feels the absolute best!
Guys I’ve talked to say they intermittently jerk or stroke their meat while she’s working on the head, and also that during prolonged deep-throating your partner can repeatedly use her swallowing muscles to “milk” your penis. If you’ve ever watched porn flicks, you’ll see most fellatio ends with a jack-off over the fellaters face. As stated above, I’d rather be deep in a tight comforting place when I blow MY load!
- Rip

I have had a similar experience that echoes what kfarrelldba described. My wife gives a damn good blowjob - however she was inexperienced when we first started dating and lack of self confidence affected her enthusiasm for it. Thus it was hard for me to orgasm from just the blowjob. I would almost always end up jacking it myself to bring things to completion. We broke up for a period of time and I hooked up with a chick that simply loved to drink my cum. She gave amazing blowjobs and could bring me off in a matter of minutes. They didn’t feel much better as best I can remember, she just got me off quicker. What I loved best was her enthusiasm for it. It wasn’t a chore … it was something she genuinely wanted to do. That is what made the difference.

My wife and I got back together and have been married for over 8 years now. The blowjobs gradually improved. She can get me off that way in about 20-30 minutes currently, but it is something that required effort from both of us. As she has gotten more enthusiasm about it, I have had to reverse years of thinking that she wasn’t enjoying it. I would love to have that few minute blowjob experience again, but it is probably going to take a lot more work to reach that point.

- Chris