Marky777, you’re 2 points are, oddly enough, what I wanted to mention but only as one point…
You can create the false chemistry easily with the language you use provided you know how to get in her head. I believe NLP works in this regard. I’ve seen (ok, felt) a woman get soaking wet from just talking. The challenge was finding out what she wanted to hear. Once you pry her mind open, the legs were pretty easy.
Only problem was she was so wet when I finally entered her, I felt really tiny inside.
If girth is king, why the hell does everyone keep talking about length?