Oh my god... is this the start of ED?
Met a girl and we’ve been dating and hanging out a bit.
Last night we finished off about a 3/4 bottle of Jack Daniels… I also forgot to eat dinner and was definitely feeling under the influence.
We get upstairs and start going at it, eventually I get the OK to go.
However, a few minutes later… I go soft.
Couple of contributing factors (in my opinion):
1) Past few years, sex has been irregular for me (full time single dad)
2) I was pretty darned intoxicated
3) She said she couldn’t feel much with the condom (common, but hearing it the wrong way may think it’s a size thing (I’m 6.5 x 4.5 or so), so I had to pause, pull out, and take it off.
4) She then mentioned she doesn’t come vaginally and has to do it herself.. All my ex’s had orgasms with me, this would be a first.
For #4, we had just gotten started, so it wasn’t anything about me, I think she was just being courteous so that I wouldn’t be hurt if I didn’t give her an O.
She started crying after it happened thinking it was her (and it was probably something like that but not directly her fault), so I soothed her over. AFter some more kissing and hanging out, I’m ready to go again..
But after a few minutes, it happens again and I’m just left there kind of confused and bewildered…
Part of me wants to think this is just ol whiskey dick and nothing to worry about… part of me thinks the past year or two spent mostly masturbating to porn has made personal intimacy more difficult as a result (no constant stimulation, etc.)
Any thoughts? I can’t go out like that.. this was a definite blow to the ego…