Kicking a man when he's down....?
Maybe you’re intentions are good but you are completely off base and out of line. Unless you yourself have suffered what AirAl has courageously shared - you really can’t speak to the matter (except to learn from him).
When did he ever say he wasn’t aware of where the problem “really” exsists?
As someone who CAN relate to AirAls predicament I pray you never find yourself there. I’ts a dark and ugly place I’d wish on no man. And it takes a brave man to admit it.
Morlock, to quote you “You need to be looking elsewhere to solve whatever it is that is bothering you.”
Excellent post. Especially the words of advice. I’m glad to see you’re at a better place.
If you don’t mind, I’d like to add an exlamation point to #2:
“If, and ONLY if, she negligently tells you that a former lover was bigger..”
Fellas, the key word here is “if”. Given that nearly anyone reading these boards has an issue with penis size (their own esp.) refrain from probing these matters with the one you love. Especially avoid the “What’s the biggest dick you’ve ever had?” question. Save it for the females you have no feelings for. Trust me, a shit-load more harm can come than good.
Once something is said, it cannot be unsaid.
Thanks for sharing all of that Air and good luck.