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No More Porn For Me

Originally Posted by Cook22
Paulski, and the other guys.. Yes I know that the real deal is with girls, I had a girlfriend before the accident and we had great sex, but she was how should I say, a short girl, with a petite figure and I felt a lot more confident with her. Right now I pretty much rely on masturbation, because I’m too shy around ladies. Actually there is a lot of interest in me(You know I’m a handsome guy :D ), from chicks but I can’t ever seal the deal.. I’m kind of afraid that she’ll see my dick and laugh or something.. (I’m 5.9 in lenght and 4.8 in girth)

I had good sex with the last girl because , like I said she was short, with a tiny ass and I felt that I’ve got control over her (in bed). But the combination of a lot of porn/masturbation and a girl that’s a bit taller (like 5`7) and more mature, puts me in a messed up situation where I don’t have confidence at all, and that’s why I can’t even think about having sex with her..

Sorry for pouring myself out like that there, but I needed it to explain my situation with porn, masturbation and girls.

OK, I know that we’ve all been lead to believe that big dick = big orgasm for the girl, but you know what? It’s not even close to the whole picture. More oxytocin = more orgasms for the girl. How do we get the girl the release more of this awesome sacred hormone? Touch! Stop thinking about your dick size and start touching her in the bedroom. I mean really touching her. Touch her face, her hair, her back, her wrists, her collarbone, her tits, her stomach, her thighs, her ass. Interlace hands. I know it’s lame Hollywood love-makingly corny but just shut up and try it. Run your fingers through her hair. Get as much skin to skin contact as you can. Act like your trying to merge your body with hers. I’ve been trying this lately and the results have been pleasantly surprising. 5.9 inches is fine, you can wail all night on her g-spot with 5.9 inches. Go get em. What do you have to lose?

http://www.reuniting.info/science/o…_health_bonding
http://www.antiaging-systems.com/PR…n-love-drug.htm
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100% Porn Free From 06/07/2010

^ Very good points! Obvious things, but we tend to forget them. On this size oriented Forum is never too much to repeat them!
Yesterday, when I surprised my wife kissing her neck from behind in the elevator, it acted like magic to put her in the mood for the whole evening!

After one and a half months of no porn, I have broken it :( . Let me say in my defence that I had to watch porn as a tool to get strong erections for “officially” measuring my PE progress. At my age just fantasizing is not enough for maximum hardness… The temptation to continue watching it is huge, but I’ll try to resist it till the next official PE measurements.


Starting BPEL: 6.9" (Dec.1st, 2008)

Current BPEL: 8.11" NBPEL: 7.63" BPFSL: 9.09"

Current MEG : 5.6"

I should clarify that I was saying masturbation is essential when you arn’t having sex regularly or otherwise find a release regularly.

Originally Posted by cervixhunter
^ Very good points! Obvious things, but we tend to forget them. On this size oriented Forum is never too much to repeat them!
Yesterday, when I surprised my wife kissing her neck from behind in the elevator, it acted like magic to put her in the mood for the whole evening!

After one and a half months of no porn, I have broken it :( . Let me say in my defence that I had to watch porn as a tool to get strong erections for “officially” measuring my PE progress. At my age just fantasizing is not enough for maximum hardness… The temptation to continue watching it is huge, but I’ll try to resist it till the next official PE measurements.

One and a half months is an awesome effort. Just get straight back on the horse. Each time it gets easier. Keep it up! :-)

If you can’t totally abstain from masturbation, you could also try just no masturbation for the week before you do your measurements. You’ll be rock hard and you won’t need porn’s help. I know that you probably want to keep the same conditions for measuring that you’ve always used for consistencies sake, but really, isn’t a porn free measurement more realistic? When you’re with a girl, you’re usually not watching porn so that’s the kind of state you should be trying to simulate when you measure.


100% Porn Free From 06/07/2010

Originally Posted by LionsFan
I should clarify that I was saying masturbation is essential when you aren’t having sex regularly or otherwise find a release regularly.

Even this is doubtful in my opinion. There’s a popular idea that masturbation is healthy for the prostate but I’d really like to see some decent studies on this. Not sure if we’d find many men willing to lay off masturbation for long enough to have a decent sample size for a study. And then there’s interfering factors like erections/orgasm from intercourse etc. Men have a number of erections in their sleep every night and your penis and prostate get a workout then, so I don’t think stopping masturbation even over the long term is going to cause problems for sexual health. Men also have wet dreams periodically if they don’t orgasm through other means. On the flipside, I don’t think a little bit of masturbation is going to have any negative affects either, so it probably doesn’t matter either way. All this is really speculation though without decent studies.

I do note the “caged monkey” effect is quite hard to deal with. Not orgasming for more than 2 weeks for me definitely makes me frustrated and edgey to the point that it’s distracting and this carries over to other parts of my life.


100% Porn Free From 06/07/2010

Originally Posted by paulski82

If you can’t totally abstain from masturbation, you could also try just no masturbation for the week before you do your measurements. You’ll be rock hard and you won’t need porn’s help. I know that you probably want to keep the same conditions for measuring that you’ve always used for consistencies sake, but really, isn’t a porn free measurement more realistic? When you’re with a girl, you’re usually not watching porn so that’s the kind of state you should be trying to simulate when you measure.

I actually don’t use porn for masturbation, or at least don’t use it to ejaculate. I have an active sex life and I keep my load for my wife. The addiction to porn comes from too much drive, so even shortly after sex with my wife I was tempted to watching porn.

So I totally abstain from masturbation, but I have almost daily intercourse which I won’t cancel for the sake of PE measurements. I’m very much visual (like most men), so I need visual stimulus to get hard. That is what I get making real sex and also when watching porn. I’m doing stealth PE, so I can’t ask my wife to get me hard for measurements :)


Starting BPEL: 6.9" (Dec.1st, 2008)

Current BPEL: 8.11" NBPEL: 7.63" BPFSL: 9.09"

Current MEG : 5.6"

Originally Posted by cervixhunter
I actually don’t use porn for masturbation, or at least don’t use it to ejaculate. I have an active sex life and I keep my load for my wife. The addiction to porn comes from too much drive, so even shortly after sex with my wife I was tempted to watching porn.
So I totally abstain from masturbation, but I have almost daily intercourse which I won’t cancel for the sake of PE measurements. I’m very much visual (like most men), so I need visual stimulus to get hard. That is what I get making real sex and also when watching porn. I’m doing stealth PE, so I can’t ask my wife to get me hard for measurements :)

Funny thing is though. The less visual stimulus you get over time, the less it takes to get rock hard. Using porn often desensitises you brain to visual stimulus.


100% Porn Free From 06/07/2010

^ Agree on all the above. After more than 45 porn free days, a little peeking to porn convinced me about the regained sensitivity, yielding record PE measurements! :)

I’m back to porn-free life hoping to last at least till the next PE measurements!

I’m facing a new challenge from the cable TV provider: I’ve found a new (and more exciting) adult channel in the program list which I’ll have to ignore until I’ll be able to unsubscribe.


Starting BPEL: 6.9" (Dec.1st, 2008)

Current BPEL: 8.11" NBPEL: 7.63" BPFSL: 9.09"

Current MEG : 5.6"

Originally Posted by paulski82

Anyone who doesn’t believe porn is addictive is severely deluding themselves. That’s not to say that everyone who watches porn becomes addicted, but you do run that risk. Not everyone who drinks becomes an alcoholic, but some people do and the results can be devastating. The research I’ve been doing shows that porn is unquestionably addictive and is very similar to drugs in the effect it has on the brain. Brain scans comparing cocaine use to porn use are nearly identical. Porn hijacks the brains reward circuitry, which is fueled by dopamine, in a very similar way to certain drugs like cocaine and amphetamines.

Porn does not affect me. My brain sexual circuitry is broken.Psychological pleasure is just lacking, 3 days ago I decided to try doing A fantasy ended up triggering a dopamine release. The pleasure was incredible I did not even have to orgasm. Since I felt completely satisfied. As it was something I never felt before.


[9/2010] 7*6 NBPEL/8*6 BPEL pic's Not PEing anymore. (as of Nov '10)

[12/2011] 7.37" NBPEL * 6.4"

[1/2013] Current stats:7.37 NBPEL * 6.5.

Originally Posted by Dino9X7
Well I was going to start a thread about this but than spotted this one. I just deleted about 8 years of porn off my computer at least 60 gigs of porn. I didn’t consider myself a porn addict(maybe years ago) in fact I mostly watched when doing PE, edging and clamping. And every once in a while just to watch porn. But lately I have been become more spiritual and watching porn just seemed wrong when your trying to become a better person. I didn’t think I was a bad person for watching porn it just wasn’t who I want to be.

I can’t say I’m really religious and I’m not a fan of most organized religion but I do believe in God and I’m trying to recover my lost faith and I plan to get myself back to church. The world has left me hollow inside of late and I want to fill that void with good things. Maybe do some volunteer work, do my part to make the world better.

I haven’t come to terms with PE in general yet, is it wrong to think about your own dick size so much. I like to think I help people overcome insecurities and that PE is no different than weight lifting or other self improvement hobby. But I think of all the time I have invested in PE I could have finished my college education, maybe even a masters. Or I could have threw myself into a business venture or did community service. Spent more time with my kids!

Well just some thoughts, it’s been a real tough last 5 months for me causing me to reflect on my life and try to fix things I don’t like about myself.

I’ve watched porn once since than which was over two months ago, and I really don’t miss it at all. And it takes way less to get me excited now.


I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)

Originally Posted by wulfe
whoohoo, more than a week with no porn and the little fella is doing way better, erections are back to 80% ,and I’m constantly thinking about real women, not fake tits and over puffed lips, I’ve had a few cravings for porn but the sex is so much better without it that I’m just not gonna cave.

Slightly off topic, but I would encourage you to not talk about your penis in a way diminutive way (like “little fella” above). I believe there is a mind body connection. Just try getting comfortable with using “Big Fella” and your words will lead your body.


I think its growing!

Oh and by the way - no porn for 2 wks.


I think its growing!

Originally Posted by Stantanus
Oh and by the way - no porn for 2 wks.

Champion effort! :-)


100% Porn Free From 06/07/2010

Originally Posted by scarsick
That’s exactly what I think of porn. Not more porn for me too!
Maybe we can make a group,to help each other. Just an idea.

I am shearing the same idea/

Been clean for 7 weeks since my computer broke, just got a new one and I’m feeling the temptation already.

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