Need more staying power

Just as it reads above. What do some of you guys think of kegels vs. fleshlight? I remember zaneblue talking about using it to increase staying power. Anybody?

Kegels can make your erections harder and probably make you last longer

race21 - Dick Control: A Primer

I was meaning to post this so this thread is a good chance for me to share something that I’ve found that works for me.

I have tried just about every invention known to man to last longer. In the end, nothing really works.

I’ve been taking Dostinex or the generic form of it and can now last for what seems like forever.

75 mg twice a week.

That’s it. Again, I’m just one guy’s testimonial.

Try these exercises out. Once you can last on your own for 30 mins or so, you can last as long as you want with a partner. Seriously, it is all about practice and getting to know your body/sensations really well:

Orgasmic Edging - Enhance your orgasm

If you want to get more advanced, see Cheeva’s Dick Control: A Primer
AceofSpaceman already mentioned that one.

I’d suggest starting with the first one as it is a bit easier to understand. No kidding, it will help you a lot. But again practice makes perfect.

Here is some information that you might find interesting: How Long Can You Last?.

Oh yeah, I can highly recommend the fleshlight as a masturbation tool. Closest orgasms to “real sex” that you will get.

For that alone it is worth every penny of the $50.00 or whatever it costs nowadays.

The “wonderwave” texture is pretty realistic.

They also do have the “stamina training unit” — from the site you basically use it with edging techniques like I linked to before.

Let me be a little more specific with my problems with staying power. If I go at a slow to moderate pace when sliding in and out of my fiancee’, I can last forever and a day. It’s only when I start to go fast that my ability to “stay” rapidly dimishes. I don’t know if that changes anyone’s advice or not.

Cosign on this one for sure! I’ve written many threads trying to figure this one out. The moment the serious thrusting, moaning and nasty talk gets into play, it is not long before blast off. Than, it is all about the stop and start technique. (I guess ;) )

Wait until you want to cum, then go fast and furious, you will both arrive at orgasm at the same time ain’t that cool. Then when you cum just keep fucking! Hit the “G” spot first hing try to get her to have a vaginal orgasm. But don’t tell her that is what your trying to achieve she will freeze up and clam up on you and the stress of not being able to have the “G” spot orgasm may ruin the love show altogether.

That’s a very high dose. Any side effects? Here are typical medical doses (Cabergoline - Wikipedia):

When it looks like my wife and I are in for a weekend fuckfest, I take some liquid C on Thurdays night. My wife calls it the weekend helper. The start and stop technique I use on the first round. After that, and I wish my refractory period were shorter (infact I wish it were non-existent), I can last indefinitely for the next 24 hours.

What is “liquid C”? Cialis?

Nope, none.

I tried the recommended dosage and the dosages some guys here recommend and it didn’t do much of anything for me. I stopped taking it and decided to up the dosage and give it another shot.

Now all I can say is the stuff is truly amazing. I’m lasting as long as I want and more often than not able to fuck again after an orgasm, usually in about 15-20 minutes.

Hey that URL you posted either:
1) Crashed
2) No longer working
3) Hacked by one of those fake search sites
4) Typed in wrong

Any Guidance?