Need help from the older guys.
I don’t know if I have a problem or not. Maybe I’m just getting older :(
Please allow me to explain the scene in detail.
I am 42, Married and have a lot of sex.
I can keep it up for up to 3 hours with coffee breaks, but a typical session lasts 30-45 mins. I can more or less control when I cum, but as I practise semen retention, although we have sex 1-2 times a day, I only cum once or twice a month. The sex can feel very intense at times due to getting as close to the PONR as possible, but not cumming.
I do PE, mostly for girth now - kegels/jelqes/O-bends. I get good night wood and morning wood. My EQ since starting PE is better than it has been since I was in my 20’s
So you’re probably thinking I just started this thread to bragg… but here comes the “problem”:
When I was younger (even 5 years ago), If I got hard, I stayed hard for a while even if the stimulation went away. So for instance, if I was hard and I needed a piss, I had to wait for my erection to subside. Maybe 2 - 5 mins.
But now all that’s changed. If the stimulation stops, that is to say, if I stop fucking, or being wanked or fantasising, or whatever it was that was turning me on, my erection subside pretty rapidly. I have not timed it, but I think it’s under 1 minute - possibly 30 seconds.
One theory I have is that I’m having so much sex, my mind is simply not bothering to keep the sexual state going. For instance I used to fantasize a lot. That was when sex was only 2-3 times a week. But now, I seldom fantasize.
Other details: I never ever produced much pre-cum, and now I make even less. When I first started semen retention it went up - probably because my cum was desperate to escape. But now my body seems to have got the message that cum production is not needed so often.
Any ideas guys?
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