with somebody I can agree or disagree… it does not matter, but if they are a shitty person, I will be as difficult & conflicting as possible.
Someone could be speaking 100% proof truth and I would disagree, just because of the stinky air of personality about them.
It’s my dynamic personality - it reconfigures itself to adapt best to the situation, eg if I am with a bubbly happy person I become bubbly and happy, if I am with a sad quiet person I become more quiet and sad like. (I dont like quiet sad people)
If I am in a group of people of varying personalities, my true personality shines through clearly, with shades of a mixture of others moods and thoughts at the time…
On this board I am myself, because I guess, it is not so personal.
I think everyone has this kind of reaction to other people, to an extent.
No offence, but my point is; if you have a shitty ‘aura’ then other people will either become shitty towards you or try to get away from you to avoid becoming shitty…
Prickle, maybe this is why you seem to have such ‘bad luck’ all the time; you are projecting negative energies into the astral plane which is picked up by the person you are talking to and amplified and sent back at you, to put it in hippy terms.
For eg, I know a guy who is smart, he knows alot, but he is also a complete condescending, patronising shithead. When he speaks I growl, and it’s not because I dont like what he’s saying.
Food for thought;
You need to be at peace with yourself before you can expect to interact harmoniously with others. How you go about this is your own decision.