My sisters best friend likes me?

I have known my sisters best friend for a while and we never got on much.

But lately she seems to be really nice to me for some reason?
Could she like me?

I mean she is really really really hot!!! and I can’t see this as possible but she was after my manager for a while before my sister got him and so she then had no chance (my sister is extremly hot, and no no smart ass comments please!, I don’t fantazise about my sister!).

Mabye, she does like me, but if I ask her out and she rejects me then I will be the laughing stock of my workplace :(

BTW, I do see myself as a good looking guy and although I have a negative view of myself (a better way of saying “low self esteem” ;) ) I believe that with the proper grooming I can be a very irresistable guy with the nice attitude to match (I just need the dick ;) )
__I am also very poetic and a romantic (embarrased)

Cheers,
Cas

Interesting situation. She goes for your sister’s future boyfriend then she goes for you.

I always look for the hidden adjenda when someone gets to nice.

Anyway, I would ask her out but not on a dinner date, movies or night clubbing.

I’d find out what she likes to do for hobbies and pick one you like and ask her to join you next time you do it.

cascade

Go for it Bro! Don’t drink though

Thanks dino mate :thumbs:
I’m getting over those problems now as I have cut the spitits out of my life (not the beer though) but I am also trying to control how much I drink.

Sometimes I still can’t understand the concept that a hot chick could like me!
That is a big problem of mine that i’m grappling with at the moment.

Cheers,
Cas

You seem like a great guy, except for drinking to much even when you drink your still seem to stay a nice guy but I’m glad your trying to cut back because it will take over your life if you don’t.

Bro I used to have a friend that was average looking and when we went out on a Friday night he would rent a motel room before we went out. And 8 out of 10 times he would score a hot chick. He told me 9 out of 10 chicks would shoot him down but he would just go on to the next one, he never let himself feel rejected or anything. He had a great attitude

Thanks dino :)

I need this kind of inspiration in my life
I guess my pride is a small price to pay for a chance at a peice of ass :D

Dino, you know it man. It is TOTALLY a numbers game. I am older, one-eyed, grizzly and not in any way buff. I have no money, and I dress like the vagabond I am. I never go home alone, and I pick up pretty chicks as young as cascade whenever I want. I go into a place, survey the room, rate the chicks by my interest level, and start hitting at the top of my list. I don’t buy them drinks, I don’t use a line. Some nights I get #1, some nights the bottom of the list, but never do I leave alone. I am a shotgun of love, and at your age you should be too cas!

I read a tip years ago after my divorce that changed my life. I still do it today with the young, frustrated guys I meet holding up the walls at clubs (sharing the wealth, so to speak). Cas, you should try this with some friends, the more the merrier. We each put $10 into a pot, and then play the rejection game. The winner gets the pot, and to win you must be the first guy to get shot down by 20 different women in the bar (of course cas, I recommend you do this on campus, or at the mall, downtown on the street, at the grocery, or anywhere there are a lot of chicks - but for you my friend, please not a bar!)

To play correctly, you must carry some paper and a pen in your pocket, and you must ask for a phone number during your conversation with each chick. If you don’t get one then she counts as a rejection. Have the friends pick each of your targets, you do the same for them. Go one at a time, and critique each fellow as he returns to your group. You will learn a lot doing this, it is a fun competition, and since you are trying to fail, you are not afraid of rejection. I promise doing this once or twice will change any shy fellows life.

And do pursue the sister’s friend cas, as long as she is over the age of consent and you realize she might have ulterior motives (like you don’t, he he). So what if you become this week’s laughingstock. Next week someone else will take the title. You at least TRIED, unlike the other losers…

Steve mate, yes she is above the age of consent.

And yhea good point about someone else thaking the title of the laughing stock :D

Every 2 days it seems someone else stuffs up at our work :chuckle:

PirateSteve,

that’s an amazing tip. I’m gonna try and get something like that going next weekend. just awesome, awesome advice.

-antistar

PirateSteve

Great idea I never thought of betting on it, I have been back in the dating world for a couple of years now and when I first started I would get all bummed out if some chick didn’t like me, but now I know there is always the next one. And once you have this attitude the chicks can sense it and it makes them want you more so your success rate will go up. I used to Bartend and bounce in many clubs in NY when I was younger and I didn’t really have to even try to get girls they just fell in my lap but now that I’m older I have to work it a little to get the kind of chicks I like.

Cas, I’m sure you’re thinking about this, but just remember to treat the best friend right. If she’s your sister’s best friend you’ll probably know her for a long time. There will be weddings, birthdays, and all sorts of other occasions that could go awkwardly or just fine depending on how you finesse this. Plus, you have a sort of obligation to your sister to not fuck over her friend. You don’t want to have your sister remembering what a dick you were years from now when you need a babysitter or you’re dividing up your parent’s stuff.

Also, this is a great way to get more pussy. If your sister sees you being good to her best friend, she’ll set you up with other women because she’ll know she can trust you to take care of them and not embarrass her.

So, you should fuck her brains out, but while you’re at it, just be yourself: be a gentleman, a genuinely nice guy and a great lover. That way, regardless of how it turns out between the two of you, she’ll always make eye contact from across the room and smile, and you’ll know what she’s thinking.

(As if I know anything. I just have three brothers. But, I do have a few close women friends who think they’re my sisters.)

Don’t ask her out.

(See how ridiculous that sounds.)

>> but if I ask her out and she rejects me then I will be the laughing stock of my workplace>>

Why is that ? That only tells me you have balls and are going places. If you focus on the negative you will never attempt or achieve anything.

>>BTW, I do see myself as a good looking guy and although I have a negative view of myself (a better way of saying “low self esteem” ) I believe that with the proper grooming I can be a very irresistable guy with the nice attitude to match (I just need the dick )
__I am also very poetic and a romantic (embarrased)>>

That sounds good, but to get your self esteem and confidence up will take time. So just relax and progress daily, its not something you can totaly turn around over night or in a week or month. The dick wont help you pick up chicks, so if you want to get confident dont worry about your dick unless its extremely tiny, otherwise you will be fine.

That’s a good point. If she’s really hot, then there’s no shame in rejection. You’d probably be admired for trying by those who just haven’t got the guts.

Ike, that is really, really, really good advice. Antistar & Dino, I live to serve - it is a damn fun game to say awful things to a girl and then ask for a phone number. And bluepenguin, sweet!

And cas my friend, be yourself and take it easy. Pursue the girl and sex will follow. Pursue sex, and the girl will run. Keep flirting with her, keep her guessing, be the cas we all know and love!