Libido and Confidence issues
Hey guys… i was away from PE for a long time, because i saw no measurable improvement after 5 weeks of dedicated PE. (It felt a bit bigger in my hand though).
Anyhow, i have recently got back in to the wonderful world of being single…so naturally i started revisiting old contacts and making new once.
Well to make the long story short, i started noticing that i have some serious issues with myself…for example i go only once per night (WTF.. i am only 25 years old), and after i am done… i dont want to be touched and sex is the last thing on my mind. In some cases i cant even get hard the first time. (and i am completely healthy)
Its a confidence issue…its this stupid recurring thoughts in my head “what if my dick won’t get hard, what if I cum too soon, what if she will think I am too small …etc” And as much as I try to suppress it, it comes back with a vengeance….so instead of enjoying sex I am dealing with some serious shit in my head…really takes the fun out of it, and makes it feel like fucking work, and desire it less and less.
In any event, I recall that when I used to PE, I got that confidence boost, because my dick felt bigger to me, so I decided to try to restart PE, at the same time I am trying to “train” my body to climax and get hard more then once per night… I figured I will do this by masturbating everyday twice in a row with a 15 min break in between. But due to lack of time I have to do it right after I do my PE session.
Will masturbation after PE make my workout useless as some people state on this site (personal experiences please)?
Does my approach to “train” my body, have a chance…or is there a better way?
Is there anyone that went through what I am going through, and how do you deal with it?
Is there anything I can do to improve my libido ? ( naturally I am not looking to take some supplements)
All other comments and suggestion are greatly appreciated….. Really depressed here ;(