Lasting longer on your back

I can’t post in the sexual health forum yet, cause I guess I don’t have enough posts, but I just thought it curious that I can last a really long time during love making when I’m standing up, but when I’m on my back and the woman is on top I can only last like 1 or 2 minutes.

I am pretty sexually inexperienced, so I’m just wondering is there a different technique for lasting longer with the woman on top? It seems like there is more pressure on the nerves in the pelvic region or something I don’t know.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Erock

Actually, I’m the opposite. I can last a long time with my wife on top. I let my wife have her fun on top and then she lets me do whatever I want after she gets tired.

I’m the same way. I think it’s because that when the woman is on top, she’s controlling the speed. But when I’m on top I can vary the speed as I need to. If I think I’m getting too close to orgasm I can slow down a bit and try to hold off as long as possible.

I remember reading that woman on top is better for a man’s stamina but I find that hard to believe as well. Being able to control the motion would seem to help and you lose that with the woman on top.

I figure it depends on the woman though. Ones that like to do the grinding with less stroking would probably make it easier on the man, but my female companions tended to be of the cowgirl type - while lots of fun it wasn’t not good for stamina.

The reason that being on the bottom helps some guys with stamina is because it allows them to relax their bodies more. Muscle tension increases before orgasm, and being on top and thrusting increases muscle tension.

On the other hand, as others already pointed out, being on bottom gives her most of the control so you can not decrease the pace or stimulation as easily as you can on top.

However you can take control, even on the bottom. If she is riding you hard toward the edge, you can grab her hips to slow her down, or buck your own hips to change the pace. Practice.

I last a lot longer with my wife on top. I too like to make sure that she gets all that she wants before it is my turn.

Dude, it’s your mind. The mind is then biggest sex organ. You are more turned on by her riding you (I dig that ,too. well, not your ol; lady riding you but mine riding me) and so it’s making you cum quick. You need to learn to control the mind. I can give you some pointers if you’d like to pm me.

Hum interesting feedback. To me it feels like there is more pressure on my penis somehow by being on my back, maybe I do need to relax those muscles down there more.

I remember the first woman I had sex with (but not the first time we’d done it), she nailed me on my back and I went off like a firecracker. I think for me it was the arousal of seeing a woman in the dominant ‘I want it so bad I am prepared to jump on you and ride you for all you’re worth’ thing. I guess it was a bit overwhelming so early in my career!

These days I love being ‘flat-backed’ and rarely come in that position. I just relax and enjoy both the ride and the visuals - the bouncing, swinging breasts thing is like being in your own personal porno.

I’m a guy who lasts longer with the woman on top compared to me being on top.

I don’t know why, for me I think it comes down to penetration. I just cum harder if I’m on top ramming away, but if she’s on top, there is less friction for me or something and I can just sit there and enjoy (unless I am penetrating while lying on my back, in which case I cum faster).