Still learned nothing from this thread.. Don’t know where this muscle is and still don’t know how to avoid ejaculation
Who here has gone from having an ultra sensitive penis to having a penis that lasts as long as they like, and how did you get there?
See my thread super erections finally. I think the key to all of this is working on the prostrate muscle. See for me I can not imagine what it’s like to only last a few minutes. But I’m circumcised and don’t probably have as much sensitivity as someone that is not cut. I mean I get pissed sometimes at how long it takes to finish.
Here’s what I found.
Multiorgasms are near impossible for me.
I can’t edge worth of shit
BUT The combination of the following has transformed sex from the 5 seconds of usual fun to a somewhat spiritual experience while having sex. I’m talking head spinning sex.
1. Locate your BC muscle or whatever you like to call it. It’s in between your anus and your balls. Imagine taking a piss and stopping mid stream. Put your finger down there when you do this. It’s easy to find. Don’t say you can’t find it. If I can, anybody can.
2. Now locate your anal muscles. The ones that you use when pinching out a loaf. Or holding a loaf in while your driving around in a frenzy looking for a public bathroom.
3. Learn how to distinguish between the two. At first, the two will feel like 1. But after time you’ll learn to separate the two different muscles. The anal muscle is not what you want. You’ll want to focus on the PC muscle that I described.
4. Think of it like this. PC muscle = forward or front. Anal sphincter muscles = back.
5. Now do a few PC flexes, or holds for 5 seconds each to familiarize yourself with that muscle. Then when you’ve mastered that hold that muscle and imagine pushing it forward towards your balls. The more forward you can focus on the muscle the better. Hold at like 80% for as long as you can and rest. Do it again. After a while the muscle will start to fatigue. I don’t know the mechanics of this, but it’s got a lot to do with the prostrate. After a while, you’ll start to feel quivers and shaking and spazoming. It feels good and this is what you want. I usually do it like 1/2 hour 3x a day. Sometimes I do it subconsciously as I do it a lot sometimes I don’t ever realize I’m doing it. The spasoming seems to heighten something in the prostrate. You will have more control of yourself eventually.
It’s work. It’s work to find the muscle and get the quivering going. If I’m tired, it doesn’t work. But most of the time I can get it going. That’s not the end.
6. Get yourself an aneros. I use the Progasm. It’s the biggest one they got. Now if your like “I’m not sticking something up my ass” then stop here and go back to having no control. I don’t mean to be a dick, but get over the macho man bullshit and do something that will help yourself. Get the thing. Get a syringe and use some vasoline in it, pump the shit in your ass, lube up the aneros and stuff it in your ass. Now lie on the bed, knees bent and pull the thing in slowly and release. Do this for about 10 minutes. Then, go back to step 5 and do the same exercise. Pull it in and hold. After a while, you’ll feel the spasms start. This is what you want.
If you do this for a couple weeks, both exercises, with aneros in and the other daily exercises and keep your hands off your dick, you will have the control you want.
I use the aneros 2x a week for about 20 min to a 1/2 hour. Make a regimen out of it. Plan ahead that way you don’t make excuses. My wife leaves on wed nights so I use it then. Then in the afternoon on Sunday when she’s watching TV and the kid is busy. Wife knows about all this too. Don’t hide the shit. The device as far as I’m concerned is used to exercise the prostrate and that’s why most men have no control. I’d put my life on that statement.
Other things that help.
Ginger - RAW. I do about 4-5” of the raw shit a day and it’s great. It burns like fuck, but the greater the burn = the greater / fresher the ginger. Take off the exterior with a knife and chew the shit down and swallow. Chase with water. Mouth will burn for 30 seconds, but be a man and get over it.
Tongkat ali. I’m doing about 200mg of extract a day. I’ve had shitty tongkat (vitamin shoppe or any other pill / capsule crap) and now I have good stuff. It’s raw powder. I put 200mg on a little piece of toilet paper, roll it into a ball and eat it. Chase it with water. If you get that shit on your tongue, it’s the most foul tasting stuff on the planet.
Maca. I’m taking about 1-2 tsp a day.
Pissing. Make pissing an exercise. Piss 1 second and stop. Then when you piss again, force the stream out as fast and hard as you can for 1 second and stop. Repeat until your dry. Do this every single time you piss.
Hands off. If your constantly beating off, forget all of this. It will not work. Start thinking in terms of unreal sex and not the 5 second dribble from watching porn. You’ve done that already 100,000 times. It’s time for something new and adopting the discipline of a hands off policy is crucial.
If you follow this and do this for 1 week or so as I did. I had sex with a woman and I felt like I had Gods dick. I shit you not. I felt like a woman. Having like these mini body trembling orgasms. My cock was as hard as I could ever imagine with no viagra. NONE. When and if I decide to orgasm I can actually spit my orgasms into smaller ones. I mean shoot a little, and rest a second. Then go again and shoot a little. Then after I’m pretty much dry I have a tremendous orgasm where nothing really comes out. But I mean I was moaning like a woman before I came. It was UN-FUCKING-REAL.
Now I’ve narrowed it down to this to see which element above is most important and which is least important.
1. No more beating off
2. Use of aneros
3. Daily kegel holds
4. Tongkat ali
Do you need the supplements? I don’t know. I don’t think you need them for control. But to get that heightened sexual arousal, I think you need the tongkat ali. I get the shit for $50 and it lasts 2 months. I will not buy from that indonesian place or whatever that rapes you. I have another source.
The key is not beating your dick. Do the above and save it for a woman and you will blow your frign mind. I guarantee it.
Since you are my property, the contents of your mind are also my property, and you will give them to me when I ask.