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Originally Posted by lingam

Two said:”It doesn’t matter.” Yeah, right.

I got nearly the same response except she said “oh I didn’t notice” BULLSHIT!! She also said it didn’t matter to her because she was satisfied. BULLSHIT AGAIN. I’m sure I’ve been the subject of many jokes between her and her girlfriends.

Good advice. motivated. Thanks

>>When I came it was by choice and I had to work hard to do this. If I didn’t, I could have kept going.
Ya man, and that’s exactly was I was looking for. This is better than the promise of zero refractory period by using Dostinex, especially since that never fkg worked for me, it just made me insane (which breaks the day up nice).

>>Its like something is telling you to don’t come and you don’t come
I was able to actually negate the sensation of coming, kinda like I mentally said “No, not now…” and it went away.

>>it should be in the top five of threads
It is in my book, for sure. Fkg A.


Postatem obscuri lateris nescitis.

Originally Posted by Formula1
Today is my second day giving the 20mg Paxil a try and so far I would say I don’t like it. Too much upset stomach and feeling of anxiety. I know my doctor said to give it two weeks to take effect but I don’t know if I can hold out that long unless things get better quickly. Last night for about 5 hours I kept feeling like I wanted to throw up.

Isn’t it wierd how drugs can effect people so differently. With me, the only side effects on my stomach were a kind of numb feeling. The kind of feeling that I could only interpret as not knowing if I was full or empty. Even during and after eating, I couldn’t really tell that there was anything in my stomach. But that side effect subsided after the first couple of weeks.


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Originally Posted by iwillbbigger
UPDATE:

Okay fellas here goes. Been taking Zoloft for about six weeks now. The doc also gave me a sample pack of Cialis. Oh man last night me and the wifey got busy and I swear I hit it hard non stop for at least 20 min. Then slowed down for about 2min and then hit it hard again for about another 10 min. All in all we fucked for about 50 min. The longest by far Ive ever did this. It was scary because I ran out of breath damn near had an asthma attack. Also when I felt like coming, I held back and at one point I even came a little bit but was still able to hold back a full orgasm and keep pounding away. She said this was it for the week. I hope not cause the cialis is still in my system. It got to get out some way,some how and masturbating its out of the question.

Congratulations bud!!
Feels good doesn’t it. This is when you find out how much work it is to have sex for such a long time. I think that you could keep a high level of fitness just from having sex 3 times a week. Last night I had sex for over 1 hour. My whole body was literally dripping with sweat, I had to use towel to dry off. Again I was able to get an errection within five minutes of my first ejaculation. Brialliant time…


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Originally Posted by DarkTrick
Was great, I was like a machine. Have never fucked that intensely for that long. It was like how you fuck as your coming, that ‘fuck with abandon’ type feeling, but on and on…

I have to say a big “Thank You” to the King_G man. This thread was a real eye-opener for me.

Congrats Dark!!
Hurrah!
I’m so pleased for all of you. Knowing first hand how crap it makes you feel when you cum after 1 min and your girl hasn’t even got started. To then go to shagging your girl every which way and where, pounding away like a machine and seeing that look of respect/fear in your girls eyes as she realises she’s being seriously fucked by an ALL-NIGHT man…

To know I’ve helped someone brake through this barrier gives me great satisfaction. All I can say is SPREAD THE WORD. There must be thousands, no millions of men in the world who could benefit and not only them but their partners too. I know my wife is enjoying the longer sex sessions.


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Originally Posted by Formula1
I got nearly the same response except she said “oh I didn’t notice” BULLSHIT!! She also said it didn’t matter to her because she was satisfied. BULLSHIT AGAIN. I’m sure I’ve been the subject of many jokes between her and her girlfriends.

Hey Formula, hopefully you can channel your aggression into motivation to persevere through the side effects. Formula a couple of suggestions I hope you might find helpful.

1. One thing I noticed is that my cock is relaxed during sex now, whereas I used to kegel almost uncontrolably throughout sex which I’m sure was a contributing factor to the prem ejac. Since taking Paxil I have no urge to kegel during sex. Be sure to relax and not kegel during sex. This may be difficult if you have trouble getting errections. You may be tempted to kegel to keep your errection hard. Focus on relaxing and being turned on by what you see, smell, touch and hear, let that maintain your errection and don’t kegel.

2. Get your girl to go on top. When my girl goes on top, it’s very exciting but I’m miles away from cumming. The position of girl on top allows you to relax and is the best position for prem ejac, I’m certain about that. Even before I took Paxil I noticed that I could seemingly last forever with her on top. Unfortunately she didn’t like that position. Come to think of it, I’ve never actually cum when my girl was on top. Try it and let me know if it works for you.


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Originally Posted by lingam
I cannot say how annoyed I am by my premature ejaculation.
In the past two months I had sex with three girls and with all of them I came like really quickly when I started to penetrate. Say after 1 minute.
Two said:”It doesn’t matter.” Yeah, right. They are friendly. But of course they wanted to go on. Which girl wouldn’t want to. One I had sex with a few days ago was honest. “Oh, no. Shit. That’s unfair.” We had sex in the morning and again I came very fast. I tried again, but my dick didn’t get hard 100%, so that wasn’t great either. We had to stop.
Of course it didn’t help that I had sex with them for the first time and didn’t know them that well. Plus my fears of a condom breaking or something similar and them getting pregnant.
I’ve tried regular kegeling and acupuncture. Both didn’t help. I’m really tempted to start with SSRIs. However, since I have a regular stomach pain I don’t want to have even more as a side effect. But your experience King G sounds very good.
I still believe that there must be a natural way to achieve the same result as with the SSRIs, of course it would take longer but without the side effects.
Meditation, Chi Kung, Ayurveda. Has anyone got experience in this regard?

lingham, I tried everything and nothing else worked for me. Yes there are natural methods, but they will probably take a serious amount of time and effort to master. It could take months/years to find a natural method that suits you. Do you have that long? I didn’t.
That’s why I resorted to Paxil. It’s cheap, easy and doesn’t take any precious time out of my life. In fact it just adds time. Sex time. Instead of 3 minutes of sex per week. I get a couple of hours.


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Originally Posted by iwillbbigger
This may seem weird KG but it seems like you ans I are somewhat kind of in the same boat with this. My wife doesn’t like sex. I may get it twice a month. But in terms of my wife, it seem now that she too as yours is now beginning to try more things and is now doing things that I wouldn’t have never imagined. Like giving me oral sex more often even without me asking for it. It makes me think that world is about to come to an end. But as you said,” It’s a long process to undo a prudish upbringing” and I must agree.

Originally Posted by King_G
Dude did you should check this out, good advice I reckon…

Sexual “take-away” strategy

Dude I tried that take-away strategy above. I was crap and didn’t last very long but it worked!
We hadn’t had sex for a week. I think my wife was expecting me to try it on, but I didn’t, in fact for the last 3 days I completely ignored her sexually. On Sunday night I got in bed and started going to sleep. She got in bed next to me and starting stroking my leg with her leg. Quite unusual, she rarely makes sexual advances at bed time. She’ll flirt around with me during the day, when there’s no chance of actually having sex because the kids are around. But as soon as it reaches the evening, she never makes sexual advances and is usually ‘too tired’ or some other excuse if I try to initiate something.
Anyway there she is stroking my leg and I’m immediately thinking, wow! my lucky day, I could have sex right now if I wanted it. It was hard to turn her down, but I had masturbated earlier in the evening on purpose to relieve the sexual tension to give myself a chance of turning her down.
I did turn her down, I just made a tired noise and rolled over and went to sleep.

She must have been shocked! I’ve never turned down sex before ever!
So the Monday during the day, she keeps trying to kiss me and I’m kissing her back in a very minimal way. That night we go to bed again and again she strokes my leg. I thought I’ll just be nice and give her a cuddle. So I responded and stroked her leg back with my leg. She tried to lure me over to her side, but I restrained and after a min or two I suggested she come over to my side. She paused for a second, then she shot over like a flash. Two more seconds and she had taken her top off. She was gagging for it!!!
It works. Needless to say I banged her like a garage door in the wind. I just couldn’t restrain myself, she took me completely by surprise. But hell it had worked. We had sex twice that night. It was funny I was determined to punish her for seducing me, so when she said she wanted me to cum inside her I said “No, I’m going to cum on your face” normally she would freak out at this point and threaten to stop and walk out if I said that ever again. But she didn’t. I was surprised, so I said it again, “I’m gonna cum on your face” she actually seemed to be getting turned on more by my dirty talk. That did the trick for me and within a few seconds I withdrew jumped up her body and did exactly that…
She just said, you dirty boy! with a kind of “boys will be boys” look in her eye. Woohooo!
After a few mins of cuddling she initiated round 2. So hell I gave her another real good shafting.

I’m never initiating sex again.


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Okay KG, Im gonna try the take away. If it does what you say it does. Hell you were right about the ssri’s so I believe you on this one too. I have noticed that they do go crazy when you talk dirty to them. It seems like they want to be rough housed. So Im gonna give it a try and see what happens.


If you stretch it, it will grow. If you clamp it, she will know.

Originally Posted by King_G
lingham, I tried everything and nothing else worked for me. Yes there are natural methods, but they will probably take a serious amount of time and effort to master. It could take months/years to find a natural method that suits you. Do you have that long? I didn’t.
That’s why I resorted to Paxil. It’s cheap, easy and doesn’t take any precious time out of my life. In fact it just adds time. Sex time. Instead of 3 minutes of sex per week. I get a couple of hours.

Lingham, I honestly agree with KG here. As you can see a lot of us here have gotten solid results by doing this. I went to my urologist and he even suggested it. But it took this thread for me to ask since I did not know about this. One thing about taking the meds is that you’ll probably be on a low dosage so the side effects may be minimal. Also it helps you to relax. Bingo! I know for a fact, there are many people offering natural remedies and all natural pills that you spend hundreds of dollars on. And after all that, the shit rarely ever works. But I’m a witness to this. THIS WORKS!


If you stretch it, it will grow. If you clamp it, she will know.

Originally Posted by King_G
Isn’t it wierd how drugs can effect people so differently. With me, the only side effects on my stomach were a kind of numb feeling. The kind of feeling that I could only interpret as not knowing if I was full or empty. Even during and after eating, I couldn’t really tell that there was anything in my stomach. But that side effect subsided after the first couple of weeks.

I’ve switched from taking it at about 2pm to taking it about 10am. It seemed at 2pm the slight nausea came around dinner time and wouldn’t let me eat a lot. But at 10am if I have any nausea it occurs around 4 or so in the afternoon and is gone by the time dinner comes around. But it also seems the nausea is getting less and less as time goes by so hopefully it’s fading away.

Originally Posted by King_G
Hey Formula, hopefully you can channel your aggression into motivation to persevere through the side effects. Formula a couple of suggestions I hope you might find helpful.

1. One thing I noticed is that my cock is relaxed during sex now, whereas I used to kegel almost uncontrolably throughout sex which I’m sure was a contributing factor to the prem ejac. Since taking Paxil I have no urge to kegel during sex. Be sure to relax and not kegel during sex. This may be difficult if you have trouble getting errections. You may be tempted to kegel to keep your errection hard. Focus on relaxing and being turned on by what you see, smell, touch and hear, let that maintain your errection and don’t kegel.

2. Get your girl to go on top. When my girl goes on top, it’s very exciting but I’m miles away from cumming. The position of girl on top allows you to relax and is the best position for prem ejac, I’m certain about that. Even before I took Paxil I noticed that I could seemingly last forever with her on top. Unfortunately she didn’t like that position. Come to think of it, I’ve never actually cum when my girl was on top. Try it and let me know if it works for you.

As for number 1. I can’t kegel properly anyway so that’s not a problem.

Number 2. when’s she’s on top is when I’m most sensitive but that’s the position she likes the most. I think it’s because my erection is curved downward and when she’s on top it straightens it out, exposing the underside to more friction which raises the sensitivity level.

Reading all of you guys I just feel I had to let Paxil a try. I can’t last more than 5 minutes, and at full throttle, less than 2 minutes. Do you have to take Paxil for the rest of your life or the effects re permanent after some time?

Do you really think it will work? Can it make my libido really down? Like, lowering my erections and so? It would be horrible to have sex with a really low erection that would last forever!

Resuming, how many of you have tried paxil successfully? How much time could you last before and after taking paxil? Has it dramatically improved your sex life?

Thanks, if you are certain, that could make me real happy and confident. Having a small penis (just above 5 inches) and cumming fast is a total pain in my morale. While PE can change my inches slowly, maybe Paxil can make me feel as a real sex lover?

Arioh, I have been taking Zoloft 10mg for close to 2 months now. I take it every day in the evening( this was my choice not my doctors). I’m not sure how the effects will be if I was to stop taking Zoloft and I’m sure that those who are taking Paxil as well may not Know either. I am taking such a low dose that it seems that the effects are not too dramatic where it can be totally detrimental to me. Yet the dosage that I am taking has been working phenomenally for me.

Before I started taking Zoloft(Which by the way is the same as paxil but just another manufacturer), I could last maybe a good fifteen minutes. But that would be because I was going really really slow. But whenever I wanted to pound harder I couldn’t go but for only 7 min or less. My wife did not appreciate this because there were times when she really wanted me to hit it harder. She rarely mentioned it but I saw it on her face. But when she did mention it, it was such a disappointment for me.

I really believe that taking Zoloft or Paxil will work for you. You may begin to results right away but I believe the greater results will come after taking it for a month. Good luck and please keep us informed with your progress.


If you stretch it, it will grow. If you clamp it, she will know.

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