I've cured my premature ejaculation

A quick update - after 2 weeks of 10mg/day of paxil, I have yet to experience any of the positive side effects. Had sex with the wifey friday night and saturday Am and still no difference with the delay of orgasm. I will wait this out continuing to take the same dose and see what happens over the next several weeks. I will keep you all updated.

Dark Trick, how is it going for you - notice an difference yet, also what sort of dosage are you on. As for me, I’m into day 18 and still no difference.grrrrr.

Thanks for asking Gram40-

Not sure if this is credible or not, but I changed taking my dose from the usual 10pm to about 4 hrs before having sex (figured sex is usually around 11pm or a bit later, so I dosed at around 7:00pm).

It made a huge difference. Had a couple moments where I had to back off a little bit because I could feel things begining to reach apex, but was a world of difference from before starting the Paxil.

I was able to last until she was completely done (and we did alot of stuff). Then she just laid back and I went full bore for a good 2 mins of really hard fkg trying to come, I mean really hard. Finally came, but I really had to make it happen, could have gone on and on.

My thoughts were: since guys who do the on-demand type dosing do so 3-5 hrs prior to sex, then I’d do the same. And with 3 weeks of dosing already in me, I’d have to see something.

I did notice after taking it earlier, was walking around in a store about 2 hrs after dosing, and had a weird dizzy moment, very odd. I’ve never taken the Paxil and been awake for long, always took it towards the end of the evening. Was a peculiar sensation.

The Dr told me go for the six weeks, so give it a bit more time. Figure you could still go a couple weeks before something happens.

Dark Trick is your dose 10mg/day. Glad to hear it could finally be kicking in, I will try the same thing, but since I usually take my dose in the morning I will take another around dinner time and maybe switch over to that if I notice a difference.I will talk wifey into sex tonight to find out, had a great pump session today as well so will be something extra for her as well, maybe I can fuck her hard for 10 minutes we’ll see what happens.

By all means I’d try changing the time, seems to have made a difference for me. To know for sure though, it would have to be a repeatable process. Will be a couple days before I can do try it out again.

Ya, 10 mg a day. Have to refill my Rx today, so that means it’s been a month on this med.

My major side effect was being tired, Paxil really yanked the rug out from under me, I could fall asleep anywhere I could lay down for 5 mins.

That has subsided. Once past 3 weeks, that dropped off markedly.

Also, I have noticed a decline in my libido, and in my general frustration threshold.
Both are a good thing.

How is a decline in libido ever a good thing?

For me it is, as my libido is (well more like was) always in overdrive.

It’s kinda the way King_G described it-

I use to get pissed (internally, I make the effort never ever to show it) if the wife wasnt interested in hitting it.

Since starting this Rx, if the wife isnt interested, I really dont care. I dont think I’ve even suggested it in the past 2 weeks. She initiated the last couple times.

Also, sex was a constant thread running in the background. Now, it’s still there, but it’s priority setting is much lower. I’m probably more productive.

I read you’re taking Cabergoline/Dostinex. I used that, jeez, guess it was like 2 years ago, and it made my libido go nuclear, and my orgasms were biblical in intensity, like nothing I ever experienced before (or since). My experience, if you’re interested.

What’s your motivation for taking the Cabergoline? (If I missed reading the post, just point me back)

I wanted to try it in because I was hoping that it would give me back a least some sort of a sex drive because right now I don’t have any at all. I had heard some guys say that it made them very horny and I was desperately wanting that feeling back again.

I was also hoping that it might allow me to last longer than 30 seconds to a minute during sex. I also heard that some other guys had said that it made them last longer.

Some background links:
Formula1 - cialis overdose
Formula1 - I have No Sex Drive and Could Care Less

I would think that Cabergoline would help the sex drive part of your problem. Dostinex made me crazed.

I used AndroGel briefly also, which is a Testosterone replacement gel. After about 2 weeks, that also amp’d up my drive to an uncomfortable degree. You might want to look into that. Be advised of the caveats for Testosterone replacement.

I tried Androgel for 3 months two years ago. Didn’t help me any and my testosterone levels went down during the time I used it.

I have just about tried everything that is out there at one time or another.

Dark, those results are quite interesting. I was dosing in the morning becuase that’s what the instructions say on the meds leaflet. Side effects will be more noticable when you are awake. Although I’m surprised you didn’t have trouble sleeping when dosing so late at night…

I will try dosing later than usual and see if it make a difference. I have also had the wierd dizzy moments

I have noticed a really strange thing during sex. If I lay on my gf closely and grind deep inside her, I can last forever. If I take all my body off her so that only my dick is connecting with her then I ejaculate in about 30 seconds lol. I am very influenced by how sexy the position looks… which SUCKS!

UPDATE: There has been no change in my situation. Still taking the Zoloft and doing well. The longest I have gone so far is about 35min without wanting to pop. Also for some strange reasons but this is great but I have been cumming more and harder. Has anyone else experienced this while taking meds?

I haven’t started my Paxil and I don’t think I’m going to. I’m just too afraid that it is going to totally cancel out the Cialis and Levitra causing my to not have erections at all.

Ive taken cialis along with Zoloft and there hasn’t been any cancellation of the medication. Actually it intensifies it more for me. I suggest you try it and see if it works for you. But give it time as well.