a few years ago when I had a dry spell with having a girlfriend (I was still getting laid but nothing consistent) I developed a nasty problem. Went from lasting normally to having a severe premature-ejaculation problem. When I got with my ex-girlfriend I noticed but couldn’t figure out why. When I started PE and paid more attention, I noticed that, unfortunately, I have the unintentional kegel.
No matter who or what I’m doing, if something touches the head of my penis, I involuntarily kegel. I can put a laptop there and I’ll kegel. It sucks, and I tried to reverse kegel but can’t do it. If anyone has any good ideas I’m game, but it’s been like 9 years, I’m not sure if I can unlearn it.