Infected right after sex

YEA - take a breath. You’re getting yourself all worked up for nothing.

Sore dick and a red spot? right after masturbation? with soap? = loosen the grip and DON’T use soap. Could have been worse, you could have gotten some soap IN your urethra and then you’d really be pitching a bitch. Seriously, you got nothing to worry about.

Thrush as some one mentioned above, is a yeast infection OF THE MOUTH. It’s marked by a fuzzy white coating in the mouth.
Little kids get it a lot caused by antibiotics. I had it so bad once as an adult that I had fuzz coming out of my ears, and yes it sucked.
This does however bring up the subject of bacteria. Which could be, but probably isn’t, a source of the redness and soreness.

It’s like this: Chicks get yeast infections from EVERYTHING. From keeping it too clean to letting it get dirty. From taking a bath, to wearing tight jeans. From your dirty little fingers, to wiping in the wrong direction. And yes, SOAP also.
We’re lucky as guys in that respect. Our dicks are not little incubators of infectious smegma. Well….Unless of course you’ve been sticking it in some of the nasty shit I see walking the streets in this town.

However if you go waxing your tender willy with something as abrasive as soap, well you just may wake the next day with a sore dick and a skin abrasion to fuel your anxiety. You want to know a secret? For most of my wacking career I use to always get those little red spots afterwards. After years of dealing with it, I had all but convinced myself that I must have some form of herpes. This (Thunders)was the first place in my life that I ever saw or read about that issue being addressed. Finally I was relieved that I was normal.. or at least my dick is, I’m another story. No one ever mentioned that before, and why would they. Hey dude, I jacked off a little hard and now I got these red dots on my dick. No, somehow I don’t see that conversation coming up with any of my buddies.

So relax, your dicks normal. It don’t like soap. And the tight grip may feel good, but anytime there’s two bodies in motion friction results.
Soap isn’t the proper lubricant. Believe me. Hell if I eat to much salt in my diet, like the shitty pizza I ate last night, then it even burns when I pee. I’m just sensitive like that, and maybe I need to drink more water.

Okay, I’m glad I could resolve that for you.

Now same thing with getting her pregnant. Chicks get pregnant because they want to. They sure the hell do know what week they’re ovulating.
Which is … umm… actually this week. Because next week is national rag week here in the states. Don’t believe me? Just wait until every second commercial is for a feminine hygiene product next week. We’ll discuss this later, but suffice to say that marketing knows and so does she, why shouldn’t you?

That aside, in your particular case I wouldn’t even concern myself with it. Like someone else has said, anything is possible.
But in your case not very probable. Like a zillion to one chance. You’d have better odds at winning this weeks powerball lotto.
Next time just use a rubber. Dam I’d be more upset about having to pull out with out finishing anyways.

What I’m saying is, that unless there’s more you haven’t told us, you need to go find something to distract your thoughts for awhile.

Now remember - Don’t use soap. Conditioner works better, but some of that will irritate the hell out of your dick also.

MEN & THRUSH

What are the symptoms?

Inflammation of the head of the penis (balanitis) is the most common problem. It becomes red and sore, and irritation and itching are common. Little red spots may also appear there and a penile discharge may occur.

Sound familiar?

Hey rootcap thanks for all that information, now is ther esomethign I should do about it? Like the head of my penis still kind of “hurts” when I touch it. Will the problem go away on it’s own?
And again about the pregnant thing, before I went to her place. At my house I took a shower and pissed, I used a lot of soap on my penis, then I went there with no condom. She was on top of me and we barely had sex for even maybe a minute or 2 because I really wasn’t turned on or hard to the fullest for some reason.
So I pulled it out and I just fingered her afterwards. So again I wasn’t even close to ejaculation.
And even if precum went inside her the precum wouldn’t have caught any sperm left because that day I pissed after I ejaculated not to mention I showered to.

And lets say this stingy feeling on the head of my penis is an STD. There is no way I would be experiencing it after a few minutes after that 2 minutes of sex right.

Thanks for your replies.

You washed your piss hole out really well?

Pretty much yes

That is probably the cause of the pain then. Soap and piss holes don’t mix.

From what I’ve heard it is possible to get pregnant without insemination but just by precum. It does not matter much if you urinate or not. It never happened me (I mean to any of my partners) but I know some couples get pregnant any time they won’t use condom. Some men must be leaking semen :)

So it is not 100% safe.

Could be an STD. If she was actively infected and having an outbreak you could have any number of STD’s. I would say it is slim but certainly possible. A red spot could be a sign of herpes, warts, gonerrea, crabs, clamedia, etc., etc. As far as she being prego precum can get women pregnant, but you would have to have secreted some. You may not even know that you secreted some and she could be carrying your bastard child right now! I’m just scarring you bro, in all likely hood she is not prego and the red spot is from wanking too much. Take a chill.

Thanks for all your replies, so some of you said that it does not matter whether you urinate or not after previous ejaculation and that the precum still may catch sperm on the way coming out. So does this mean that some studies are fake? Where they say that urine is acidic and kills any left over sperm in the urethra.

Exactly, just like soap and vaginal orifices don’t either.
I do however stand corrected. There ARE different forms of thrush, which is a type of yeast infection.
You may have indeed upset the natural bacteria fauna of your penis, (and / or piss hole as the boss so eloquently stated). Again, just ask your favorite female as this is how they get yeast infections as well.
So you may very well have given yourself a thrush infection.

As far as VD goes, Any contact can give you something. Even a blowjob. Chlamydia and gonorrhea of the mouth and throat are 2 of the most common VD’s rampant out there right now. Especially in the younger crowds. Rumor has it the CDC won’t even keep statistics on oral infections anymore because it’s so out of control in the high school and colleges.

I still say it’s highly unlikely that you have little more than what’s already been stated.
However, if you like sleeping peacefully at night then why fuck around?
Get your ass over to the local health department or other clinic for your free VD testing.
You get a clean bill of health and you get to roll the dice again…..

So what if you get a bruised ego and a sore dick from the cotton swap they’re going to shove up it.
You’ll be all the wiser afterwards.

Hey, and what’s up with the chick you were sticking it to? Was this a prostitute or something?
Or just your average hoe? I ask because you haven’t given me the impression that you think very highly of her.

1. Irritation, not likely symptoms of an STD. Watchful waiting is in order. If things worsen or don’t improve, definitely see your doctor.

2. If you put your penis inside a woman with no birth control in place, and you are both fertile, even if you don’t ejaculate, your chances of impregnating her are NEVER ZERO. Maybe very small, but not zero.

BTW, I am an MD. Not saying that for any reason except to let you know that I konw a bit about this stuff.

Just thought I would drop my two cents. One of my buddies is an only child (by his parents choice) and his mom told me that she and her husband never used any birth control except for the fancy “pulling-out” method.

Also one of my childhood friends had a kid at a young age, and when I asked him how long he had been having unprotected sex with his girlfriend, he said “since we got together.” So it took them almost 1 year of unprotected sex to get her pregnant. My point being that there are some cases where ejaculating inside the girl won’t get you pregnant (just please don’t rely on this!!!).

I haven’t personally heard of anyone getting pregnant without the guy ejaculating inside. So, yes it’s likely but I’ve heard more to the contrary than anything.