Hi all, I have wanted to get the answer to something that has plagued me for years and years and thought asking as wide an audience as possible would be the best idea.
I’ve been reading loads about premature ejaculation and the possible link with the BC muscle, which got me thinking about something I have been wondering for years, but too ashamed/embarrassed to ask.
You know the “contractions,” or “throbs of ecstasy” (“TOE”) as I like to think of them, just before orgasm and during ejaculation, well, I seem to have these contractions at other times not related to sexual activity, although on a far lesser scale and never to orgasm.
What I mean is that ever since I was a child, and I mean young, probably 3 years old when I started “child masturbation,” I have felt these TOE almost undoubtedly when my bladder is full or just after I’ve taken a crap (for lack of a better word), among others.
That’s what led me to believe that perhaps my BC muscle is extremely underdeveloped (theorizing here), and that has led to my premature ejaculation (although I have become a master at overcoming this through mental willpower).
What I really want to know is:
1. Are contractions at non-sexual related times normal/abnormal ie common/uncommon? Does anyone else experience this?
2. Could it hinder potential growth through PE?
3. Can this phenomenon be linked to premature ejaculation?
4. Is there any way to fix this situation? (Extensive kegaling?)
I hope you catch my drift with this. Basically, it is one of those things that I have held inside for so many years, but figured that it was time to get it out in the open. For some reason, it’s quite difficult bearing the soul.
If anyone has any input on this, I would really appreciate it.