I think I lose sensitivity on my penis

I was going to post this on the men’s sexual health forum, but sadly for some reason I can’t post there. This has nothing to do with PE, because I haven’t PE’d in like 4 months (I simply don’t got the privacy)

When I jerk off I get off just fine, but I do need to work it a few mins until I can get off (unlike when I was in my teens, where I’d touch it and I would just orgasm right away). When the girl I am sleeping with gives me a blowjob and has sex with me I simply can’t orgasm.

Did I jerk off too hard and too much during my teens that now a woman’s mouth and vagina is not enough to get me off? Or is this just mental? I mean I literally felt my semen about to come out when SNAP my penis blocks the orgasm and I can’t cum.

I can keep it hard just fine.but I am really not enjoying sex. It’s becoming more of like a workout, and my penis gets sore.

Stop bragging please :)

You can “train” yourself through masturbation to respond to specific pressures and grasps that only you know how to do. Teach your lady how to do what you like. Then ask her to teach you what she likes.

Be glad it takes you longer than a few minutes to get off. We have guys here who complain because it only takes a few minutes to get off.

Honestly, nothing to brag about here. I am not enjoying myself.

I’ve been doing kegels for about 6 months on schedule. I do a 20 min hold mid-day and 200 1 sec reps in bed before going to sleep. I guess this is what’s keeping me from ejaculating?

Also take a look at this thread:
Had the problem that no guy wants to have

That guy is just like me.we’re even the same age. I am realy beginning to think the massive porn addiction all these years made my dick lose sensitivity.

Why don’t you stop kegels for a couple weeks and see if that has any help?