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I have problems ejaculating inside a woman. Delayed orgasm.

I have problems ejaculating inside a woman. Delayed orgasm.

I’m 25 years old and I rarely have sexual intercourse. Last night I was fucking a woman for an hour and a half straight. We tried all the positions imaginable and I still could not cum inside. She asked me, “are you going to cum anytime soon?” She then gave me a 15 minute blow job thinking that I would orgasm, but that still did not work. The only way I ejaculated is when I masturbated. I felt really bad because I wanted to cum inside of her. I can cum a lot faster with the super fast strokes that I normally do than the shorter strokes when I fuck a woman. I’m also taking a beta blocker (toprol xl) to lower my blood pressure daily. Without that drug my heart would be pumping too fast, especially before intercourse. So I feel more relaxed taking toprol xl.

Note: I had no problems getting an erection. My erection was 100% the whole time.

Is this a performance axiety problem, or am I too used to manual masturbation, or is it the heart drug?

Try going faster…


Recognize.

I tried fucking her fast, but it still did not work.

It was just probably stage fright. That happened to me once with a girl I was with for the first time with her. I couldn’t cum at all. The second time I was fine.

So try to get her again and I’m sure you’ll be able to blast that snack pack of hers.


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Maybe you are subconsciously afraid of getting her pregnant.
Work these issues out… Have you talked about protection methods with her?

Maybe you programmed yourself to the stimulation levels that you get only from masturbation.
Try laying off the masturbation for at least a week and then try again with your woman…

Maybe a glass of wine will help but I don’t know how that mixes with your medication. Consult your doctor.
Too much alcohol inhibits erections but one glass may be the key.

… and report back the results. It should work!


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2006.

You might be strung just a little too tight and a release is difficult. You may want to engage in prolonged foreplay to help with the relaxation of the sexual organs, keep the clothes on for an extended period and have her hand massage your package. The other option would be to introduce a vibrator into the mix and during coitus have the wand stimulate your member. Or, get the other girls in the sorority to help out.


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It’s not about shooting inside her anyway, bro. That comes naturally. Experience the pleasure and connectedness in the moment. Embrace that feeling. Don’t get stressed out and worried about your performance. Just fuck her and enjoy yourself. Keep going all night. If she’s putting unnecessary burden on you to hurry up, then that’s a problem with her… And you might consider fucking a girl who’s more into it. You know?


Recognize.

Ok thanks guys for you advice. What time frame is considered normal is it under one hour or 30 minutes? Have any of you guy gone over 1hour/30 minutes? After one hour for me it got boring and tiring, because I was going nowhere :( I was just fucking her, but I was not feeling it any more (you know what I mean?)

Maybe you should become a porn star. That is exactly what is required.

According to posted average, normal is 2-3 minutes after penetration non-stop stroking apparently LOL :) It holds true if you’ve ever studied amateur sex tapes. Are you circumcised by any chance? Maybe you can recover some sensitivity if you keep using skin moisturizer on your glans. You could conceivably also get one of those toys from FleshLight.com and practice. I would rather practice with the woman though :) Remember you can also fantasize to enhance your arousal. Good Luck!


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Work out.

Fuck harder.


I, can, I can, I can not, can not compute..

So you can keep a hard on for hours, fuck like a bunny and not come? I wish I had your problem dude.


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Observe... learn from other people's mistakes.

Its the beta blockers

Mike: It is the beta blockers. I had the same problem with them. Discuss it with your doctor and ask if there is another medication you can use. I did and we found something that works. I hate the side effects of beta blockers. MXL

I think you’re probably too constricted down there, i.e., squeezing too hard in an attempt to come. You’ve got your prostate in a vice grip :-) In which case, you need to learn to relax those muscles and let your body’s automatic pumping reflex take over. Try to consciously focus on that area (lower abdomen) when you’re alone and see if you can feel it ‘open up’ (inside). Also, see if you can translate your masturbation technique into an intercourse technique. I.e., find a position, angle and rythm that stimulates you inside her the same way (actually, better!) than you do with your hand. I’ve slowly discovered those factors for myself, and also, happily, for my partner, so that she comes vaginally.

(I’ve heard the same about beta blockers, too.)

Originally Posted by MagnumXL
Mike: It is the beta blockers. I had the same problem with them. Discuss it with your doctor and ask if there is another medication you can use. I did and we found something that works. I hate the side effects of beta blockers. MXL

Sounds like it’s the beater blockers then. Although it’s also quite common for men who masturbate very regularly with the same technique to suffer from delayed orgasm. If it’s this then lay off the maturbation for a couple of weeks then have sex, you’ll cum much quicker.


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