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How do male porn stars do it?

I’m in a somewhat similar position to chainz. It can take me quite a while to reach orgasm via intercourse or oral sex. (and even masturbation).. not really sure why, and it doesn’t take me quite as long as chainz, but it’s usually at least 15 minutes minimum for me. It has it’s pluses and minuses.. there are those moments when you’d like to sneak a quickie in, and I just can’t do that, but no girl has ever complained about my stamina…

I think my last girlfriend may have taken it badly that she couldn’t get me off as quickly as she probably had been able to with other guys in her past. She wasn’t the most communicative, so I’m not 100 percent sure on that… but that’s how it seemed to me, despite my efforts to convince her otherwise.

The grass is always greener, indeed… but all in all, I’m pretty happy with my lawn.
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I hear you on the quickie. It would be absolutely amazing to just receive a blowjob somewhere for 5-10min and come. Right now, a blowjob/handjob is a marathon session of me focusing so hard to come that I feel my head would explode (the big one, if only it was the little one). I actually have a thread from 1.5 years ago about how I had to overcome my problem here. Just posting it for reference, it’s only really relevant if you’re interested in a rare problem.

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I last a lot longer when I’ve had previous sex/masturbation within a day. And I can last as LONG as I want if I’ve ejaculated twice within a day, day and a half.


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I’ve never had any problem staying hard and lasting as long as I want to with sex (no secret tricks, unfortunately), although frankly I find intercourse pretty boring beyond about 30 minutes in a session, no matter how many position variations are employed. The part that amazes me with the male porn stars is how they can cum on command — often in synchrony during the gang-bang scenes. If I’ve been pounding a girl really hard for a long time, orgasm can be difficult to achieve, let alone within a matter of seconds when I’m told to get there (as on a porn set).

I’m really glad adun posted that TMS link, I’d never heard of it, but apparently I suffered from it. That’s the way I used to masturbate when younger. When I started having sex I had amazing control. I could literally go for hours. I could control when I would climax as well. Not long after, I started taking Paxil, which is an SSRI in the Prozac family. It was used for depression as well as anxiety, and in some cases, it is used to treat premature ejaculation. I couldn’t cum. This is one of the most frustrating things I’ve been through. I tried and tried with a new gf of mine and nothing worked. I was then switched to Effexor. More of the same with less drowsiness, though my control got better. After more severe depression I was put on Zoloft. Control got better yet again, but I was basically a zombie.

After years of being on anti-depressants with this strange side-effect, I weened myself off of them and worked on my mental stability in my own way (much happier now). However, I now experience premature ejaculation at times, and have no-where near the stamina I once had or would like to have. I blame the drugs completely. Years and years of flexing my PC muscle, trying to cum, concentrating on my own stimulation, trying to cum, and now I’m off of the drugs and all I do is cum!

I had a similar problem in the past as well. I watched a lot of porn growing up, you kind of get programmed to exactly what you want to see and exactly what you want to do with your hands. Had sex for the first time, this was a girl I hardly knew, cousin had set me up, and I was just out of high school. We had sex for close to 45 minutes, wasn’t gonna happen. Tried again later and came in about an hour. I didn’t think a whole lot about it, it was pretty frustrating at the time. The next girl I was with came and wanted to stop afterwards, anyone else ever have this? I know it wasn’t lack of performance, seems like some girls can have multiples and some girls get uncomfortable after orgasm. I was with one girl and literally had sex for 2 hours and I couldn’t come, she was a screamer though and it was really hard concentrate, she was coming every minute or so too.

My last g/f was the only one I could come with consistantly while having sex. Had to work on it, I think the first few times it didn’t happen but as I got closer to her and I guess worried less about it, it became easier. I could easily control it too, mentally and through edging. A couple months later I’d come after 20 minutes and she’d act dissappointed that we didn’t go longer. I remember thinking that the next girl I find that a don’t have this problem with is gonna be the one. But unfortunately we broke up. Haven’t moved on yet,been nearly a year, but now I can’t seem to come through masturbation w/o spending nearly an hour at it. Never had that problem before.

I think retarded ejaculation is mainly in the head and it takes the right person to get over it.

It’s all a matter of conditioning and learning to control your level of excitement.

I can do a real quickie and cum in less than 30 seconds, but I can also go for several

hours if I want to. I always make sure the woman cums first, and when she is happy

and satisfied, I cum within 1 minute of her letting me know.


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That site is very interesting.I discovered masturbation face down on my bed. Didnt knwo it wasn’t healthy in any way.

I think porn guys are just naturally gifted with size and stamina. They probably go through life hearing from women how amazing they are, so they end up realizing they could do well in porn.

Other explanations are also true and have been mentioned above:

-Drugs like SSRI’s and Viagra.

-Looping sex action film,and breaking up a sex scene into several shoots to make it look longer.

etc.


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Originally Posted by blackfuryy
The next girl I was with came and wanted to stop afterwards, anyone else ever have this? I know it wasn’t lack of performance, seems like some girls can have multiples and some girls get uncomfortable after orgasm.

Yup, women vary a lot in their orgasmic capacity. Some are like most men and roll over and die (or get physically uncomfortable if intercourse is continued) after a single intense orgasm. Others can keep going and going and going…

Like you, I’ve noticed that my orgasmic patterns differ with different women. With my current partner I can consistently get to orgasm when I want to, even if we’ve been at it for a long time and I’m somewhat desensitized. With some past partners, I would have trouble reaching orgasm if I didn’t let myself go early on (before any desensitization sets in). I don’t know what causes these differences, but I think it’s a combination of psychological factors (comfort with her, concerns with “performing” impressively) and basic anatomical stuff (some women’s vaginas expand to unreal proportions if the sex lasts too long, and they get so wet that you can’t feel anything at all after a while).

I have the same problem as chainz 8. I got great stamina and it takes forever to blow a load when getting a blowjob or sexual intercourse .

Sometimes my wife begs me to stop when having intercourse. And when she is horny enough to take for longer periods I lose interest after about 20-30 minutes and practically blow a head vein by forcing myself to orgasm.

I say frequent masturbation is the key to having staying power.

Originally Posted by 1stresponse

I say frequent masturbation is the key to having staying power.

Yeah, but how long should the session be and at what level of intensity should the duration be at?

No offense for thos eof you that have problems with premature ejacualtion but I’ve never had a problem controlling when I cum. The first time I had sex I went for an hour. I can cum in 15 min or in 6 hours doesnt matter I cum when I want to. It’s all psycholgical. I never could relate to guys that felt otherwise and my best friend is the same way. Again no offense I guess it’s just the luck of the draw.


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Originally Posted by 1stresponse
I have the same problem as chainz 8. I got great stamina and it takes forever to blow a load when getting a blowjob or sexual intercourse .

Sometimes my wife begs me to stop when having intercourse. And when she is horny enough to take for longer periods I lose interest after about 20-30 minutes and practically blow a head vein by forcing myself to orgasm.

I say frequent masturbation is the key to having staying power.

Back when I used to be able to go as long as I wanted to, I was masturbating about 3 to 4 times a week. Now that I’ve cut that down to roughly once a week to 10 days, I cum within a minute or so. I still try to edge but not cum about every other day or so.

All this information gets very confusing. You should frequently masturbate. Then it’s no you shouldn’t, over masturbation hurts you. Take this supplement, no don’t take that take this. Take SSRI’s, SSRI’s kill erections, etc.

I didn’t realize until now that taking too long to cum was just as big a problem with some guys as premature ejaculation is to me and others.

I was on Effexor for IBS for a few months and I still didn’t have that much control. It varied. However, once I went off Effexor, my control went much further down the tubes to the point that I could think about sex and my penis would feel hyper sensitive. Anything, massaging, intercourse would be seconds. However, I do know that once I start having sex on a regular basis, I get better control. The problem is my g/f has lately been hyper sensitive and stressed out, tired and not interested in sex for many weeks now. We occasionally have sex when she feels relaxed and for her, she only wants a quickie before her body just tires out. Lucky for me I guess.

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