hiv risk from oral and PEP
I was going through some emotional turmoil in the past and ended up putting myself at possible risk for HIV and/or herpes. I banged 3 pros. 2 at a massage parlour and one from back page. I used a condom at all times, but I gave them oral sex (cunnilingus) and go an unprotected blowjob. After the 3rd one, I decided to go on PEP for 28 days. Here’s the time line:
week 0: sex with first lady. used condom for vaginal but: gave her oral sex
week 2: sex with second lady. used condom vaginal. (not risky)
week 4: sex with third lady. used condom for vaginal and anal but: gave her oral sex and she gave me unprotected head. I started PEP 15 hours after this exposure.
week 8 (yesterday): finished taking PEP
Now thought the risk is small, getting HIV from going down on a woman who is HIV+ is a low but existing risk and my doctor said that he himself has treated and cared for patients that became infected in this way. He’s a really good doctor and has been doing HIV for 20 years straight. Getting a blow job is lower risk but still possible. I am worried because I got some possible symptoms like rash, a fungal infection on my skin under my lip (taking loprox anti fungal cream), and a white sore inside my mouth.
My questions are (you don’t need to answer both!)
1. For hobbyists out here, people in a relationship with a HIV+ woman, or anyone else who can share something useful: What are your experience on going down on an HIV+ woman or a possibly HIV+ woman?
2. A tricky one for the doctors among you: PEP can delay seroconversion. So usually it’s recommended to test 12 weeks post PEP (16 weeks post exposure). My question is, when can I test for my exposure on week 0? I tested negative at week 4 right before starting PEP. If I test at week 12, does that count as 8 weeks or 12 weeks? (since 4 of them I was on PEP).
Thanks guys, I used to post a bit but now I’ve become more of a lurker on the forums :) . I’ll update this thread with my test results 3 months from now. One thing I’ve learned from all this is to never go down on a pro. Even though the risk of HIV is low, it still exists and there’s always herpes and many other nasty things you can easily get. There’s no point. Escorts are for your own pleasure, Disregard their pleasure. Save the uncovered blow jobs and pussy eating for your girlfriend/wife.