Help! Girlfriend not satisfied! I'm soooo close to getting her off!

Road Hogg,

Many thanks for sharing your wisdom. It was the sort of direction I was looking for!

-Pingpang

>> 3. Stop any abusive PE efforts completely (daily light jelqing, light manual stretching and kegels are advised though) <<

What do you mean by abusive … because I am a limp dick 19 year old that rarely drinks and never smokes. I am placing the blame on erect jelqing. I can get it up, but I have to do it manually..

One other thing that may help to have more power would be through the use of a cable clamp. Here’s what to try in conjunction with all of the above except for using the ads:

Do a warm up with very warm water (not hot though) and bring yourself to an erection. Wrap the very extreme base of your penis with a soft ace bandage or what ever you prefer, but make sure that it’s plenty thick and padded. Place the medium sized cable clamp in the middle of your wrap, but leave it somewhat loose.

After stimulating yourself to a full erection you may then start to gradually tighten the clamp, but don’t ever make it too tight. Run your engorged penis under the warm water as often as you can while you are still stroking a lightly clamped full erection. Your glans will be extremely engorged at this point, but not discolored or purple. Now, here’s the trick: When you feel that your penis is as full as it can get (you may be close to ejaculating by this point), tighten the clamp one notch, kegel as hard as you can and hold it for as long as you can while running extremely warm water (not hot though) over everything you have down there, but be very careful not to ejaculate. It may help to just leave the sink water running continuously while you do this. Hold your penis over the sink and use a cup for dousing to keep your penis nice and warm.

You will quickly notice (in a few days) a larger glans and much increased girth. Do this as many times during the day as you have time for, but don’t over do any one session (it’s the cumulative effect that you are looking for here - not all at once). A full session should only take ten to fifteen minutes. If you could do six of these spread out through the course of the day, in three days your gal will notice. Not only will you be much fuller, but you will have that sexual power that you are looking for.

If you over do this exercise, it may have the opposite effect that you are looking for (decreased blood circulation). That’s the one thing with PE that is so hard to figure out - the right amount of time to spend on exercises. If you are doing things right you will notice having a larger than normal flaccid penis and scrotum through out the course of the day. If you are shriveled up, that should be indicative of doing something wrong.

r0ad_h0gg

Judging from my personal PE experience, one can pull on his dick as hard as he possibly can, but it won’t ever get any bigger that way. This is an example of abusive PE. Anything that causes major discoloring, hard veins, numbness, erectile dysfunction, etc. is what I consider to be abusive.

Yes, erect jelqing can do penile damage, but I don’t think it would cause you to have a limp dick. In my opinion it mainly causes hard veins (thromboses) if you over do it. After a good warm up, some erect jelqing is probably good, but don’t sit there and do it for an hour straight (even a half hour of this at one time may be way too much).

I hate to say it remek but I think your problem is that you are jacking off too much. Stop ejaculating for at least a week to see if you experience any changes. After a week of abstaining, you should be able to raise it up with the power in your mind with no manual stimulation.

r0ad_h0gg

Have you tried edging? That works for some guys. Good luck

Yea, it’s worked for me too.

I just don’t want my girlfriend to think I that the only way I can fuck her is have a few drinks first. She’s rarely drinks so the chances for both of us to be slightly drunk is slim.

If you don’t have the power in your groin to expand your penis to it’s maximum size, all of the edging in the world won’t help. In my opinion, one shouldn’t do edging until he has established the necessary penile power. Otherwise, with out this power it will be difficult to avoid undesirable ejaculations and one can get into a vicious cycle that will never get any better unless the right changes are made.

If one can obtain this power, then I believe edging to be one of the keys to successful penile enlargement. If you have the ability to squirt across the room when you decides it’s finally time to cum, then you have the power I’m talking about.

r0ad_h0gg

ITS ALL IN THE POWER OF YOUR MIND

I think that you just need to visualize the outcome in your mind all day long in preparation for your time together. Picture your girlfriend cumming over and over again in your mind. Picture her saying to you what a complete stud you are and looking at you in total amazement and admiration. Picture her saying “OH MY GOD-when will you ever cum???-you last so long!!! When you can sense that she is going to cum—concentrate solely on her pleasure and nothing else …Meditate on all this stuff.

DO NOT THINK OF YOUR OWN PLEASURE!

At the moment of her excitement, all your concentration should be focused on STAYING HARD and maintaining a STEADY RHYTHM which should not be too hard for you since you say you get very excited when she is about to cum. If you find yourself getting too excited then let your mind go blank and think of yourself as a machine with no feelings-a machine that wont stop until it hears her screams of orgasm and then you can allow yourself to experience any pleasure from that moment.

The problem is I haven’t masturbated at all lately (meaning within a week). This is bothering me a lot, but not to the extent that bothering would cause the problem.

The only way I can seem to get it up is jelqing it to erection. Any more thoughts? h0gg? Anyone?

r0ad_h0gg,

Gotta ask, are you an associate of Doc Lin’s?

This is soooo true. If I had only figured this out when I first started fucking I bet I would have had a lot more pussy then I did… SSi nails it hard with what he said with these two points and everything inbetween then.. Words to live by when it comes to sex!

RWG

Reach down and feel your penis several times during the day to find out exactly what it’s doing. If it feels small and cool, then obviously it has a reduced blood flow for some reason or another (figure out the cause if this is so). If it feels full and warm, then obviously everything is working the way it’s supposed to. What’s it like in the morning? It should be larger than it normally is during the day because of all of the beneficial nocturnal erections that it should have received through out the night. In my opinion, if one doesn’t get good quality frequent night erections he will undoubtedly have dick problems.

I don’t know what your PE routine is, but most likely you are over doing it. Have you lost any of your gains? How long have you had this problem for? At nineteen years old, you should be able to get hard at will with strictly mental thought.

I believe that men are similar to women in many ways including cycles and phases. The experts say that it’s normal for a man experience down time at certain times in his life. Maybe that’s all it is - a normal temporary phase that you are going through. Also, by now I would imagine everyone on this board knows my stance on infantile circumcision and what I believe it’s effects are on a man’s sexuality.

If you figure it out, be sure to let us all know what caused it or what is causing it. Good luck remek.

r0ad_h0gg

iamaru,

You are free to check my computer’s Internet history. I guarantee that you won’t find any bookmarks or browsing history pertaining to actionlove, although several years ago I did spend some time looking over his very complicated and contradictory website along with many other sites before I found thunder’s. I believe that most of what he preaches is a total crock of B.S. geared to sell his products like most other commercial websites pertaining to sexual matters. However, there is one main thing he preaches that I do agree with - “ballooning”, although I wouldn’t call it “ballooning” or “edging”. It’s simply a matter of reaching your full potential size.

Last June I discovered my full potential size, an 8”nbp x7egms” piece of steel. At that time I hadn’t been on Lin’s website for almost a year nor was I trying to “balloon”. This engorgement that I experienced was a very dramatic size increase like Lin promises, but the way I did it had nothing to do with his pills (nor any pills for that matter of any kind - not even Viagra) or his proclaimed methods. I do know that he claims it can be done by stimulating the base of your penis to avoid ejaculating and of coarse also by taking his miracle pills. Guess what folks? Your healthy body will eventually resist the effect of pills/herbs/etc. making them relatively ineffective.

It’s a funny thing because the temporary size increase I received during this one particular session that I mentioned above was so extreme I wish my girlfriend would have been there to see it! From this I have to deduct that there is some type of chemical process that does take place which causes tissue expansion (maybe similar as to how a uterus expands), because I’ve never had this much of a size increase ever before or ever since (I came close to this size during the past winter through the use of clamping, but these increases fizzled out soon after I started to smoke again). What if one were able to have this kind of increase on a frequent basis? I tend to think that it would undoubtedly cause permanent enlargement or growth of some kind, don’t you?

This is the key to PE every one! Get your dick to erect to it’s full maximum size so that you can go from there to improve on it, even during your sleep! Otherwise, your PE efforts are only improving something which isn’t at it’s full potential and consequently PEing while in this state has little to no effect. I believe that PE efforts are actually “cemented” from a healthful abundant supply of nocturnal erections on a regular basis every night. If your dick isn’t at it’s full potential, you won’t have these great nocturnal erections. Therefore, you will lose your gains every time because you won’t be able to cement!

Everything that I write in this forum is based on my very own experiences with sexual matters, not anything Lin has to say or anyone else. Sorry iamaru, but I sincerely believe masturbating too often (especially to pornography) can drain a man. In my younger days, due to having a radical infant circumcision, I masturbated a lot more than I would have otherwise, which in turn caused me to experience temporary stages of impotence with much associated nervousness (a vicious cycle that will never end unless you change). This is something I believed, discovered, and knew long before I ever heard of “Doc Lin”.

How’s that answer for a yes or no question?

r0ad_h0gg

iamaru,

Your data in the Size’s PE Data site appear to be entered incorrectly. Also, I don’t think Gotta is a word, although the spell checker doesn’t catch it.

r0ad_h0gg

OK man, i give you my opinion:

you can reverse kegel during the session
with your girl.
Push out gently but with decision your bc
muscle; do it regularly. Since from the start, ok?
Push out bc: 3/4 sec.
continue fucking: 5/10 sec or more…
and so on and on…
this will relax your prostate and you will go on..
for a long long time.
Try and you will see that it works perfectly.

An other
use ZMA and arginine ornitine
they are fantastic
give a great erection
and you can recover fast
you can cum many times…
enjoy.