Help 18 year old out a little.
I have been in the situation of not getting an erection with a girl.
She is in my social circle, and when this comes out, I am a dead man socially(I had/have high social status, as being very manly,Macho,good looking,successful etc.)
And it’s fucking eating me up inside.
So I am thinking about doing something with it.
I understand that it was mental, because I had performance anxiety/very nervous. This is a part that I have neglected for so long: I am still a virgin!
And now that I had the chance to get rid of my virginity, my dick and drive wussed out. WTF
Most people think that I have banged lots of chicks, Even my closest friends think I have banged a few, because
I have made out with soo many etc, but no! I am 18yrs.old btw.
What’s even worse was that I slept over with this girl, and had a freaking boner the whole night, WHEN SHE SLEPT and had given up making me hard!. OK this is so hard for me because it affects all my areas in life: Confidence, status, inner feeling,self worth, etc.
So Now I a taking MASSIVE action towards never ever being in the situation of not being able to bang a girl.
And I am considering getting Viagra! At least as backup.
The city I live in is way to small, and If I screw it up one more time. Everybody will know.
Since I have covered all the “physical” aspects of my life: (nutrition,rest,exercise.etc)
I don’t really need advice on that part. BUT Mentally I am lacking. If I just could relax, ofcourse it would be easy;D
Could anyone give advice to a kid who has lost his self worth!!
-Mental programming, subliminals,books, personal stories/similar experiences etc.
And certian drugs/supplements, that would give me a massive boner, despite fear.;D
ALL answers are much appreciated!;D