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Patience Grasshopper. Give it time — it took you 4 years to get to this point, don’t expect to change things in 7 days. Just keep at it, and most importantly, don’t give in to the temptation to bed hump “just this once”. You have trained yourself this way, you can un-do this.

Why sex can be such a bitch sometimes? :confused: It’s supposed to be fun and enjoyable.

I dream of the day ED would be overcome by everybody, so it will never again mess up peoples sex life.


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Wow, I haven’t heard of this before.

My thoughts are that I agree that you have obviously desensitized yourself from this (rough?) bed humping.

However, what about the psychological part of this?

You have the opportunity to switch from bed humping to a real girl, rubbing and sucking your dick. A real girl with a real vagina who wants to fuck you. That should get your dick hard just from the thought of it!

I assume you are young? If that is the case, and ED isn’t an issue, then an erection isn’t just about friction. It’s about what is going on in your head.

Sorry I can’t offer an instant solution, but think about what you consider erotic and what kind of thoughts translate to physical arousal for you.

Part of it may just be performance anxiety with your girl. If you like the thoughts of being naked with her and enjoying her body, then try going slow and touching and snuggling without the anticipation of sex. Let the erotic thoughts and excitement fill your mind, not just thoughts of how many RPM’s it takes to maintain an erection. Good luck.


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Ask your doctor for a few Viagra and keep with no masturbation rule. Between the masturbation and the Viagra you should rip her in half next time you have sex.


I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)

If someone could kindly explain what bed-humping is, I`ll be more then grateful and I`ll crawl back under my rock immediately after.

Originally Posted by smallbutcrazy
If someone could kindly explain what bed-humping is, I`ll be more then grateful and I`ll crawl back under my rock immediately after.

Imagine a really hot girl you know. Pretend shes below you. Push your penis up and hump the bed whilst thinking of fucking her senseless. Incredile feeling but not worth it!

LOL.

Dino - do you have to go doctors for viagra or can you buy them online. Is it best to go doctors for them?

How many days of taking them before I have sex with her? I heard viagra doesnt help for TMS people.

I think im panicking too much.

Just have to calm down.

Originally Posted by smallbutcrazy

If someone could kindly explain what bed-humping is, I`ll be more then grateful and I`ll crawl back under my rock immediately after.

You could just go to www.healthystrokes.com and they will explain it well.


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Originally Posted by MMAfanatic
Ok folks. This is no joke. Being a bed humper for nearly 4 years has caused me to become a mess at the moment. I first noticed problems when my girlfriend first gave me a handjob and I could not cum. She gave it for ages. But I never really thought much of it. Problems increased when she blew me and it did not feel good and I went soft. Not just once but every single time. The only way I could cum was dry humping her which she says she found strange (after I told her bed-humping is bad form of masturbation). We had sex once which was awful. I struggled to get a hard on but when I did it would last a couple seconds so I couldn’t penetrate. Finally I penetrated and I went soft inside a little. The next day she told me she never felt anything because I went soft and I was sort of bed-humping inside of her. Anyway I was recommended a site called www.healthystrokes.com and I tried to follow their instructions. I laid of for 7 days and I’ve been masturbating with my hand for the last 3 days at every opportunity but still havent cummed. I do it for quite long aswell. 10-20 minutes at a time. My girlfriend is also wanting to have sex with me soon so I’m under a little bit of pressure but I told her I don’t want a repeat of the last time we had sex.

Any help please people would be much appreciated.

Would going to a urologist be the best thing to do you reckon?

Oh I feel terrible.

Thank you for reading and any tips.

:-(

Don’t worry bro, when I was younger I used to masturbate like this. I did it for years and when I started using my hand the erection quality wasn’t as good but now I only use my hands and my EQ is awesome once again. Sex isnt a problem but back then it was. Just start using your hands and lube every time from now on. It might take time but you’ll get there. Just have faith and don’t stress it. You just gotta reprogram your body. It will adapt and sex will be great for you. Stay strong.


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Originally Posted by MMAfanatic

Dino - do you have to go doctors for viagra or can you buy them online. Is it best to go doctors for them?

Nope you can buy online, just check out the last couple of pages for the newest suppliers.

Closing down all the generic drug web sites/and finding open sites for generic drugs


I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work. Thomas Edison (1847-1931)

I don’t think there is anything wrong with masturbation, per se, even humping your mattress - if that works for you.

You know? You can make a theory out of anything, as healthystrokes.com has done.

Take a look at this site. If there is a method of getting yourself off, they’ve found it. A gazillion ways of doing it. Try one of those.


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I have been bed-humping and edging all my life and I found it superior to other methods of masturbation as it desensitized me and gave me the possibility to go almost as long as I wish to do without having to fear premature ejaculation.
If you experience problems then just dont masturbate so often and thats that.

Bed humping is just another way to do it. I cannot see how there is a correct or incorrect way to masturbate. Womwn usually appreciate the longer standing power very much.


Hedonism is imperative.


Last edited by Schabernack : 03-02-2008 at .

Originally Posted by avocet8
I don’t think there is anything wrong with masturbation, per se, even humping your mattress - if that works for you.

You know? You can make a theory out of anything, as healthystrokes.com has done.

Take a look at this site. If there is a method of getting yourself off, they’ve found it. A gazillion ways of doing it. Try one of those.

Trust me when I say that there is a problem masturbating this way. I’ve experienced them.

Originally Posted by avocet8

I don’t think there is anything wrong with masturbation, per se, even humping your mattress - if that works for you.

I don’t, either. The problem is if that is the only way that you can get off. Getting off is better than not getting off, but being able to get off more than one way is better than only being able to get off one specific way.


For Lampwick, becoming hung like a donkey was the result of a total commitment.

Check out flesh lights. There have been some pretty good success stories on their forums about getting over the desensitization of the penis through use of their products. It takes time, but it could be worth a shot.

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