First post after a lot of reading here. I am 68, have ED, am diabetic, about to quit smoking and have backed off the beer. Wife of is 53. Next month we’ll celebrate our 24Th anniversary. More in love with her than ever. We are blessed to enjoy excellent communications including candid discussions of our sexual wants, needs and desires. Plus, she is the reason I get up in the morning and by her TLC conduct, I am obviously her’s.
Until a year ago, before the ED kicked in, we enjoyed frequent and wonderful sex. We had hoped it was was a temporary issue but the evidence is in that I have a serious ED problem. A bit frustrating not being able to satisfy my lovely blue eyed blond registered nurse who knows all the buttons to push and strings to pull. She continues to teach me about her private self and we gently experiment in the mutual effort to deal with the ED.
Several weeks ago we discussed at length our sexual life since day one up to the moment. There was a time when she would wear me out and she wanted more so we talked about it and got some toys to spice up her almost daily masturbation routines. The vibrators and dildos were her second choice as she preferred my penis that was a nice fit for her. Around 5.5 to 6” erect with about 5” girth. She eventually tired of the toys and disposed of them. We agreed to order some new toys because of my ED and she urged me to get both a penis pump and a hollow dildo intended for victims of ED.
When all arrived last week we had fun opening the packages that included all we had agreed upon plus a couple surprises for her. The latter being a guy thing :~) It’s my guess the following session lasted about 3 hours or so as we tried everything out including her watching my first use of the penis pump. For as long as we can recall she has always been able to suck on her nipples but we had never experimented with pumping. Well, she used the penis pump on them and her vulva and so enjoyed those new sensations we’re shopping for the female pumping items. Although we’re older she still has a beautiful and sensitive mound she pleasures the washing machine with and her gorgeous vulva that is as symmetric as that of a much younger lady. All was to no avail in terms of my getting a satisfactory erection but we consider the session a success both in terms of fully accepting the ED issue and a plan of action. That being employing the Newbie routine patiently and persistently per Avocet8’s encouraging article “Vacuum Pumping when you have ED.”
My wife is small so any dramatic increase in my length or girth would not be comfortable for her. Our goal is to simply try to regain penis health.
Which brings me to.. I’m not yet able to start a new thread. Perhaps Avocet8 or another moderator or member familiar the ED could start a thread on that subject. I feel that would be very helpful as any success stories would be most encouraging.
Thank you for your patience with me. Any and all help with my issue will be appreciated.