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Good position for those who are desensitised.

Good position for those who are desensitised.

I am in a new sexual relationship with a girl, and my old fears of not being able to come due to lack of sensitivity, and death grip syndrome resurfaced. I think my previous gf got a bit annoyed about it, she thought it was her fault I couldn’t come so it knocked her confidence, and generally made the sex a bit shit.

Anyway, I only masturbate with a fleshlight now, and try to use gentler, slower strokes most of the time. I had sex a couple of times with this new girl but didnt come, but then I waited a week with no masturbation whatsoever (it was hard) and managed to finish!!

It only took me about 20 minutes, and I was on top (I can only usually come in doggy). The position we used, though, was a slight variation of standard missionary, where basically she put her legs together instead of opening them, thus tightening it a little more. Woooo! I was so relieved afterwards, but my balls ached like hell after not mastubating for a week!


Starting stats: 6" BPEL/5" EG

First Goal: 7" BPEL/5.5-6" EG

Other goals: Increased sensitivity

Originally Posted by S.P.
I am in a new sexual relationship with a girl, and my old fears of not being able to come due to lack of sensitivity, and death grip syndrome resurfaced. I think my previous gf got a bit annoyed about it, she thought it was her fault I couldn’t come so it knocked her confidence, and generally made the sex a bit shit.

Anyway, I only masturbate with a fleshlight now, and try to use gentler, slower strokes most of the time. I had sex a couple of times with this new girl but didnt come, but then I waited a week with no masturbation whatsoever (it was hard) and managed to finish!!

It only took me about 20 minutes, and I was on top (I can only usually come in doggy). The position we used, though, was a slight variation of standard missionary, where basically she put her legs together instead of opening them, thus tightening it a little more. Woooo! I was so relieved afterwards, but my balls ached like hell after not mastubating for a week!


See this 2-minute video clip about an April 3rd Learning Channel show which will address lost sensitivity:
http://tlc.discovery.com/videos/str…-sensation.html

S.P. - I think you would probably get a lot out of this too:

Thunder’s member Yataghan50 has a great blog about how he got rid of his retarded ejaculation by training with a fleshlight.

There is some very good stuff in there, very very good advice. I for one found the perfomance anxiety stuff to be very helpful.

Treatment Regime for Retarded Ejaculation
This blog provides a small insight into my sexual life, which was initially filled with frustration as I continually failed to climax from vaginal penetration. It outlines the steps I took to overcome this problem, which hopefully will be of assistance to others facing the same dysfunction.
http://www.retardedejaculationtreatment.blogspot.com/


Last edited by sta-kool : 03-16-2011 at .

Originally Posted by S.P.
The position we used, though, was a slight variation of standard missionary, where basically she put her legs together instead of opening them, thus tightening it a little more. Woooo! I was so relieved afterwards, but my balls ached like hell after not mastubating for a week!

EXCELLENT!

What you said about that position reminded me of this articlel - sex positions based on penis size (to maximize both her and your stimulation). Maybe there will be some good ideas for you in it.

Your trouser snake: Whatever size you are, there’s a sex position to suit

Thanks for the links, I’m sure I’ll find them useful. I just hope, because of my recent success, I am half way there!


Starting stats: 6" BPEL/5" EG

First Goal: 7" BPEL/5.5-6" EG

Other goals: Increased sensitivity

I managed to come again after only about 20 minutes with my girl!! I think fleshlight masturbation has really helped.


Starting stats: 6" BPEL/5" EG

First Goal: 7" BPEL/5.5-6" EG

Other goals: Increased sensitivity

Originally Posted by sta-kool
S.P. - I think you would probably get a lot out of this too:

Thunder’s member Yataghan50 has a great blog about how he got rid of his retarded ejaculation by training with a fleshlight.

There is some very good stuff in there, very very good advice. I for one found the perfomance anxiety stuff to be very helpful.

Treatment Regime for Retarded Ejaculation
This blog provides a small insight into my sexual life, which was initially filled with frustration as I continually failed to climax from vaginal penetration. It outlines the steps I took to overcome this problem, which hopefully will be of assistance to others facing the same dysfunction.
http://www.retardedejaculationtreatment.blogspot.com/

Blog spot seems to have deleted my site for some reason, ah well.

Good to hear you’ve made some progress SP. The fleshlight definitely helps. On a related note I had sex earlier today & actually hit a milestone- was able to reach just before the PONR wearing a condom, & maintain it for a good 5 minutes, effectively edging with the girl. Had only done that bareback before. Could have cum at any moment, every stroke was awesome … but I got greedy :D . When we changed positions, I lost the feeling & couldn’t get it back :( .

I really want to be able to recreate that feeling missionary style, so I can kiss my partner & look at who I’m fucking (a GF ideally, why can’t I find her? :P). That’s the sexual goal. Your position sounds good, I’ll have to try it.

Give it a go! Coming whilst on top so my GF could see me was one thing I really wanted. I could only come in doggy before, but this closed-leg missionary gets me each time.


Starting stats: 6" BPEL/5" EG

First Goal: 7" BPEL/5.5-6" EG

Other goals: Increased sensitivity

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