Good position for those who are desensitised.
I am in a new sexual relationship with a girl, and my old fears of not being able to come due to lack of sensitivity, and death grip syndrome resurfaced. I think my previous gf got a bit annoyed about it, she thought it was her fault I couldn’t come so it knocked her confidence, and generally made the sex a bit shit.
Anyway, I only masturbate with a fleshlight now, and try to use gentler, slower strokes most of the time. I had sex a couple of times with this new girl but didnt come, but then I waited a week with no masturbation whatsoever (it was hard) and managed to finish!!
It only took me about 20 minutes, and I was on top (I can only usually come in doggy). The position we used, though, was a slight variation of standard missionary, where basically she put her legs together instead of opening them, thus tightening it a little more. Woooo! I was so relieved afterwards, but my balls ached like hell after not mastubating for a week!
Starting stats: 6" BPEL/5" EG
First Goal: 7" BPEL/5.5-6" EG
Other goals: Increased sensitivity