Going to the bathroom a lot after sex

Anyone else have this problem? Does anyone think reverse kegals will help me with this?

As in shitting or pissing? Both?

Pissing. My urge to go greatly increases.

It may be that your timing for sex and prior intake of a lot of fluid just coincide. Can you empty your bladder before you have sex?

My bladders empty, but when I drink afterwords it’s like I got to go a lot afterwords, even if I don’t drink a lot. It’s like I feel alittle urine in my bladder and I have to p it out.

For the other members who might be interested; its normal to go to the bathroom after sex and is actually encouraged to help clear out the plumbing so to speak. If you are going every 3 seconds, yes its a problem, please make an appointment with your doctor.

You may be the beginning of an enlarged prostate, possibly. Try taking some Saw palmetto, but seeing a doctor is advised if you are going often afterwards. By the way, how old are you. The reason I ask is because it is common for old men to get an enlarged prostate, but not always. I had an enlarged prostate at the age of 27 and had to was prescribed some pills for it. I must say they didn’t help, the saw palmetto was what helped me. I agree with sunshinekid about going to the bathroom after sex is normal, because I do most of the time.

Do you think an enlarged prostate is or can be a cause for premature ejaculation?

No, I don’t think so, but I’m not a doctor.

I reckon I have an enlarged prostate even though the doctor reckons otherwise. The symptoms that have been desribed in this thread sound familiar to what I’ve been sufferering from although its not just after sex, its all the time. I always wake up in the middle of the night to take a leak and just drinking the tiniest amount of water will send me running straight to the loo. My piss stream has gotten considerably weaker over the years and ive noticed this coinciding with my bouts of premature ejaculation. Ive been sexually active for 11 years (im now 25) and premature ejaculation has only hit me in the last 3 years, same as the constant pissing/weak stream etc.

I might have to try that Saw Palmetto stuff. How is it taken??

Saw Palmetto is taken orally, it comes in a pill form. It usually normally frequently is found where ever they sell herbal remedies. I know here in the states I can get some for my spouse at our local pharmacy, but I don’t know about merry ole England.

BigBear, please see a doctor, it could lead to future problems. If your postate is bad, so is your sex life. Your prostate is whate makes things happen. I had the same simptons you did except for the pre ejaculation. Take care of it now before you notice your pants on the crotch is wet. do it NOW.

Hey, BigBear. Please take a look at the forum guidelines before you post again (i.e. spell-check; use "I’ve" and not "ive", etc.) Thanks in advance.

I totally concur with tntjockey if this is an ongoing problem, you should set up an appointment with a urologist at your earliest convenience.

As sunny said, peeing soon after sex is usually no cause for alarm, but peeing all the time most certainly is. Get checked.

Oh, and Sal Palmetto comes in tablet form and is a very good supplement. You can get it at GNC or The Vitamin Shoppe or any number of health stores. I suppose they may be different if you’re in England rather than, say, Kansas, but it’s pretty easy to find.

As far as premature ejaculation I seriously doubt that has any bearing (sorry :D ) on this peeing situation. That’s a horse of a different color as they say. I believe the best approach to fixing this is found in The Multi-Orgasmic Man , which outlines a method to re-train the body’s responses to stimulation through use of breathing, visualization, and energy work, as well as Kegels, reverse Kegels, etc.. Some find it a little woo-woo, but it can really work wonders.

Others prefer hypnosis…there are a few success stories using different strategies here in the vast archive that is Thunder's. Have a look.

But get checked out, or we’ll worry. :leftie:

TNTJockey and Mr Happy,

Thanks for the concern. I have tried twice already with my doctor but he doesn’t seem to want to acknowledge my symptoms as being related to my prostate. He thinks I drink too much water than my bladder can handle, which is about 1.5-2 litres daily, also citing that I’m far too young to be having prostate problems.

I’m not sure how to go direct to a urologist without a written referral from my doctor due to the way our health system is set up over here. I’m going to try once more with my doctor, failing that I’ll just have to show up at a hospital and sit in the A&E dept until I get seen. Or as a last resort, get some cash together and go private.

As for Premature Ejaculation, I’m already one step ahead of your suggestions. I’ve ordered the book and have been using some of the useful methods that have been outlined elsewhere on this board. I must say I’ve noticed a vast improvement in regards to my own awareness of my sexual responses on a manual basis.

I have posted a “progress log” of a whole weeks worth of training which can be found here /forum/showthre … ?t=93580&page=2

And apologies for the bad punctuation and further apologies to Dickey for totally jacking your thread!

BB-

2 litres a day of water is a good thing- not a bad one.

Has the doc done the DRE [Digital Rectal Exam- where his finger goes up your pooper]? If not, then he’s an asshole possible engaged in malpractice to dismiss your concerns without a quick in-n-out to check- and you should seek help from another doctor as you healthcare system permits.

There must be a way to switch primary care physicians, no? If not, go back and tell him that upon speaking with your dad, you found out that there is a family history of BPH [Benign Prostatic Hypertrophy] and that your concerns are rooted in that [a small white lie perhaps, but you need to motivate this asshole].
If he still refuses to take you seriously, then ask him who his supervisor is and how you can switch docs.

Fuck any doctor that won’t at least stick his finger up your ass and check. I’m not a fan of the DRE, but if my doc didn’t do it, id be freaked.

BUT[t?], IF he did do the DRE, then he’s telling you that alles ist gut and you can probably relax.