Hey guys.. So I guess I’m just looking for opinions really. I seem to be having some serious problems with my dick lately. I just don’t get nice boners or stay hard like I used to.
I’m 27, fit, healthy, never had any issues. It all started about a month ago when I took a weekend vacation with some friends. It was a great time, we were all cramped into this tiny hotel room so of course no one scored, lol. Anyway, this entire trip I didn’t get a single hardon, not even morning wood.. I didn’t think much of it because we were constantly out doing stuff and there were never any sexual situations. After the trip though.. I still didn’t. A couple days after I forced myself into a boner and jerked off, just because I wanted to feel good I guess and make sure it’s still working. Fast forward a week and I was with someone who I’m really into and I just couldn’t get anything more than like a 60% semi.. After 3-4 hours just gave up without even getting off.
At that point I decided I was going to stop watching porn and not jerk off so much, I was only every 2-3 days anyway, and see how it went. Fast forward to right now: I rarely have anything more than a morning semi, and that’s not very often.. And I’ve been with the same person again, was able to get off this time but I wasn’t anywhere near 100% and it was a real struggle. Like, I would feel myself getting hard and that awesome swelling feeling, then it just fades way.. Like my dick never clamps down and keeps the blood in like it should. I have jerked off on occasion but the boner never comes as easily and is hard to maintain.. Never as big and strong as it used to be. I have watched porn once since, for what reason I have no idea, and used a fleshlight during.. That was about the only time since the trip my dick has been raging hard.
All of this is incredibly frustrating and makes me wonder what’s going on. I’ve read all about porn addiction and what it causes.. And I can’t believe it could have happened to me, but I guess the symptoms match. I have been incredibly stressed out with school and my personal life lately too, so I’m sure that has a lot to do with it. I don’t know.. Makes me pretty down on myself and worried about whats happening.. I guess I’m just looking for answers.. Maybe some reassurance that this will pass.
Oh yeah.. The only thing that has changed via my diet or exercise is that I stopped taking ginkgo (ran out and just haven’t bought more). I take it for vascular health fyi.