Sed26, you offer a very comprehendible explanation. Well said. I also concur with your position on porn. An excellent perspective. I don’t have a problem with premature ejaculation just when the wife reaches orgasm point, could be 20 min or an hour, it makes me lose control. I’d like to train to get through that so I can give her multiples. I’ve tried counting backwards, kegel, reverse kegel, pondered Einstein’s theory of relativity. No good. Maybe I’ll look into your method.
You are not alone I get that too. It’s something about her moaning and fast breathing during orgasm that makes me explode during hers! The closer she gets the more turned on I am. But my wife can only have one orgasm like us so I guess I am lucky.