Right- i know theres a couple of similair threads already on here—but mine is slightly different situationwise, so didnt want to hijack one of them.
Im 27— ex bodybuilder and very healthy- decent size BP 7.5 inches.
PE`d a little and gained a fair bit of thickness.
anyway—about a year ago i started having erection problems.
At the moment if im about to have sex with a regular fuckfriend— then i can get hard no problem- but it doesnt stay hard unless i get lots of stimulation.
once ive cum—thats it i wont get hard again- my penis just feels lifeless like its completely fatigued.
about 10 mins later i can get hard again but wont cum off penetration-the only way i`ll cum is if im masturbated really fast-any slight drop in stimulation and i`ll go limp. even go limp off oral sex.
I guess thats not the end of the world BUt—when im with somone new it gets worse.
I get performance anxiety issues. I was with somone the other night—whom tried to go ontop of me for sex and i wasnt hard enough to enter her— eventually i can manage to penetrate her if i go on top and play around a bit. as you can guess this is embarrassing and makes my anxiety worse.
i had another embarrassing encounter recently too— i had sex with a girl for the second time after a 20 minute break— i was inside her and as i was thrusting- even tho it felt really good, i just started losing my erection and went completely limp— my penis felt like jelly.
Its like whatever muscle etc restricts the blood flow just gets exhausted and fails.
so there are a few factors i want to list.
1) steroids— is my testosterone level normal— well even if it isnt-when i am on steroids i still have this problem.
2) i masturabte twice minimum everyday to porn.
3) ive used a suckion pump for penis length about 6 months ago—
I was thinking of taking l-arginine
ive got a dose of clomid and steroids if i need them by the way.
I just want to get to the bottom of what the problem is.
Can you guys list some herbs vits/min etc for me to try any oyher suggestions— do you think the masturbation is causing issues or do u think i need to do kegels?