I think this is the first thread I start in this section of Thunder’s.
My problem is that I can’t maintain my erection for as long as it takes for my GF to get hot and lubricated. I get a hard boner at the beginning but than it slowly subsides. Sometimes I can’t get a boner at all (only a semi and that’s if I try really hard). In the morning it’s easier for me to get hard but she only wants to have sex at night.
I assume this problem is from my brain and not a physiological one, as I get morning/night wood and even with my GF, during some kind of foreplay, if I know for sure we are not going to have sex (and I’m not thinking about the erection as something I desperately need) I get the hard on for a long time.
If i get my cock inside her (pushing it in with my fingers or using lube to get the semi inside) I get an erection in less than a minute. But I also tend to premature ejaculate using this method.
She is really bad at hand jobs as well as blow jobs and what makes it difficult for me is that she gets upset when I tell her she’s doing it wrong (and stops all sexual activity).
Lately I’ve also had trouble masturbating (it goes limp quickly and gets hard hard). When I get to the point of no return I stop having trouble, when edging for instance. The boner is not at all limp.
Maybe it’s all cause by stress? Any advice from someone who had similar problems?
I know some of you might recommend getting a new GF, but I’m really scared that the problem will persist (and that would suck as a first impression).
18.02.08: NBP 6.7, BPSFL 7.9, EG 5.9
18.05.08: 6.9" NBP, 8.3" BPSFL, 7.7" BP
my lazy ass is on a break AGAIN, since late may '08