Emergency- what contraceptive?!?! Help!

Hey!

Basically my girl from Serbia is coming here for Christmas. Unfortunately she got to the doctors too late as her monthly cycle has already started, so she won’t be able to use the pill(I quietly happy; those pills are fucked up).

I really need some ideas for what other methods we could use (neither of us like condoms and I have read that cumming in a girl improves their mood so I want to test this out).

I could swear that I read here that lemon juice kills sperm pretty damn well, but surely there’s no way that would work on it’s own. (:

I heard about the cervical cap and diaphragm, yet I can bottom out on her so surely they would come loose during sex, right?

Time is running out, help guys!!!

If she is not on hormonal contraceptives or the IUD, you should NOT come inside her no matter what, if you don't want babies!

If you don’t want to use condoms, combining a cervical cap or diaphragm with withdrawal (i.e., pulling out before you cum) would be reasonable. A cap or diaphragm alone would be too risky, in my opinion, especially if she isn’t experienced in using one.

Too risky even if for only 2 weeks?

Dude, it is NOT that hard to get a (fertile) chick pregnant. Plenty of couples who want to have babies manage to get pregnant within the first month. Do NOT risk going without contraceptives. And I’d say that a woman who is using a cervical cap/diaphragm for the first time is almost not using a contraceptive at all, given how tricky they are said to be to keep in place properly…

That’s my opinion, anyway. I’m sure you’ll hear from other guys. I personally think that if you have excellent ejaculatory control, the most important thing is to PULL OUT well before you cum. Planned Parenthood puts withdrawal at 96% effective over the course of a year among couples who claim to have done it perfectly every time.

You could also just use condoms for the two weeks and see whether she gets on a hormonal method or the IUD before your next get-together…

IUD seems quite promising. I just suggested it to her by showing her a diagram and her response was, “neeeeeeeeee, I am not putting that inside me. Would you put it inside you? :D “. However she just saw a photo of a girl holding it and was surprised(as was I) at how tiny it is. Here’s hoping :) .

Thanks for the help Para!

You can get a women pregnant from having sex ONCE.

I don’t know about "Pulling Out" either. There is semen in your pre-cum.

I agree with her on the IUD. No way.

I like the diaphragm, if she has time to get fitted before she comes over that is good. We never had it slip, it fits tight. You are not going to knock it loose if her doctor fits it properly. Plus it is backed up with a spermicidal lubricant (prescription).

If that can’t happen, I would say use condoms for intercourse.

The trick to making condoms feel better for the guy. Put a some lube on the INSIDE down at the "reservoir" tip.

ALSO there is a condom called INSPIRAL that feels great, it is very close to not wearing one. I saw it reviewed in a man’s magazine and the best feeling condom, I bought some and they are really good.

Pleasure Plus Condoms | One Brand

Maybe this is a good time to bring up anal! (HA HA good luck)

If you search PubMed, you’ll find that the only two studies that have examined the topic have found no viable sperm in pre-cum, so the authors suggest that the 4% failure rate for “perfect” withdrawal is due to men accidentally ejaculating before they pull out. Still, I would never use withdrawal alone.

I don’t like the feeling of diaphragms, but I’m surprised they aren’t more popular than they are. The failure rate is way too high for me to consider using a diaphragm alone, but I’m more paranoid than most guys about pregnancy.

Thanks for the pubmed info.

As I say with the diaphragm we always used a spermicidal jelly too.

Do check out the INSPIRAL condoms some time that I added ON EDIT above. They really do feel like next to nothing.

ON EDIT: Don’t know how they would work with that porno-sized unit of yours though. That bulgy area is a supposed to be baggy so it slides around some.

Did your lady have a bad experience using the pill?

Were you watching Manswers? I chuckled when I heard that. I wish it worked that way without me having to leave my cum in my girlfriend.

You start screwing around with their estrogen levels and some women don’t like what happens. Wife could not stand it.

Cheers guys,

about the oral pills: I did a lot of research into them. They effectively kill a women’s libido, permanently. It causes a rise in the levels of Sex Hormone Binding Globulin, which does around immobilizing almost all the testosterone in the blood. Studies done have shown that even after a year of disuse, the SHBG levels remain elevated. There are ways to lower it, but it requires drugs or various herbs.

I actually read the studies that explained that women may absorb the hormones in semen, leading to enhanced mood. My girl is naturally happy; I’m merely curious.

I have actually used the withdrawal method a few times with her. I was sure to avoid any “dry orgasms” and pulled out way before the PONR.

Sta-kool man, with the spermicidal lube you use with the diaphragm, could you taste it when eating her out? I actually just read that diaphragms have a failure rate similar to condoms, so I’ll look into that. Also, what is it that puts you off copper IUDs? It’s completely non hormonal and she would only have it in for 3 weeks at most.

I don’t think a doctor would insert an IUD if the woman didn’t intend to keep it in for years. It’s a good long-term non-hormonal method, though. My understanding is that the most common problem is heavier periods, but this can improve with time.

I don’t remember a taste to it. And I am big on oral. LOVE IT.

It had a distinctive smell, kind of KY jellyish with a little perfume.

It wasn’t a bad smell, I remember at one point I was so conditioned to the smell that I could open the tube and the smell would start the blood rushing to my unit! I guess I am just Pavlov’s Dog.

Have you used that method exclusively, i.e. have you regularly cum inside her without pregnancy?

Yeah I’ve just read that generally it is not recommended for those that have yet to have children. This is probably just due to once-held fears(as I just read), but apparently they were needless fears, as it has been shown to be very safe(pregnancy can occur instantly after removal). I’ll be researching a lot more however.

Yes, we used that method for many years. At least 10?

Then switched at some point to condoms (apparently it was “my turn” to deal with contraception). After some experimention, that’s when I found the inspirals.