Edging, premej and impatience
I’ve been a premature ejaculator basically since my teenage days.
I’ve been able to keep going for up to like 1 hour after I’ve come before, but the first I’m mostly very fast, between 1 minute and sometimes, but only rarely 10 minutes.
I’ve taken Paxil, but since I’m currently not in a relationship I don’t have the regular chance to have sex, so I found it too much to take the pharmaceutica regularly.
I’ve tried edging a few times. I noticed then that I’m very impatient. When I go slowly I don’t feel much. So I go faster and imagine having fast hitting sex. Then once I start to feel, I have big problems to go slow. Then I come quickly. I’m realizing that I’ve probably conditioned myself in a certain way and thus come so fast when I have sex. I’ve tried to edge,but either I also come reasonably quickly or I don’t feel much and kind of get bored and think of something else to do. I’m also keeping too busy. My day is filled with activities. After work for instance I’ll normally have something to do, go to the gym or watch a movie. When I get home I eat, shower, read and go to bed. Not much time to relax.
What do you others who have this pe think about this? Can you enjoy edging, i.e. go slow on your own, but only cum fast when you’re excited or have you perhaps experienced something similar but managed to get through this and learn to feel more early on.