Edging, potential ED, high standards and some other issues - HELP NEEDED!
Can edging cause ED? This may seem like a stupid question, but something very strange has started to happen to me recently. Since the point of edging is to increase staying power by stopping stimulation when you’re about to come, letting the excitement level drop a notch and then continuing, I have been using this technique for the past two years to fight my premature ejaculation. However, my penis has now developed a mind of his own, and since he now “knows” that I won’t let him ejaculate, my erection and excitement level now PLUNGES just a few seconds after the stimulation stops, and, what’s worse, I usually can’t get it back up!
A year ago I wrote that I did’t have a morning wood. I am 28 years old now, and haven’t had morning wood for the past few years, three at least! I sometimes feel a partial erection when I wake up very early. Some guys on the forum instructed me back a year ago to see a doctor, change my diet or whatever, but nothing helped. My doctor said that lack of morning wood wasn’t a problem as long as I could get a normal erection, but now what?
I was never a macho man full of testosterone, in fact far from it, but this is now getting me worried. I am afraid that I’m slowly developing an organic ED, and combined with a fact that I still suffer from premature ejaculation (when I do get it up) I feel completely sexually disabled!
I have also noticed that I go through some sexual cycles, and that there are longer periods of time when I feel no interest in sex whatsoever! I can’t get an erection without physical stimulation any more, and up until some time ago a simple fantasy would do the job. I am in a long distance relationship. Some three weeks ago I was burning with desire and desperately wanted her, I masturbated almost every day for a week. Then, some two weeks ago, I suddenly lost all interest in sex. She came to my city and stayed with me for three days for New Year, and we barely had any sex at all! And that was the first time we slept together. After I ejaculated on Friday evening, I couldn’t get a stable erection for the next two days, until Sunday evening (when I ejaculated prematurely, again).
No matter how embarrassing this is for me, I will tell you that I was a virgin until the age of 27! And before this girl that I’m seeing now, I only had sex once in my life in a stupid one night stand, so logic dictates that I should have been burning with desire for my girl when she came to see me, but I wasn’t. Now you might say - “that was performance anxiety”. And I say - no, it wasn’t. After the first night, I didn’t have any anxiety at all, in fact I felt as if I was with a very good friend or a sister!
And this brings me to my final problem - my very high standards. My girl is definitely above average looking, and she’s very sensual. But somehow that’s not enough for me. She has a few extra pounds in the waist area, and that’s an incredible turn off for me. I see all those ugly girls with boyfriends and I can’t help myself but wonder, and notice that I could never have sex with some 70% of girls out there! I just couldn’t.
QUESTION ABOUT KEEPING AN ERECTION INSIDE A WOMAN
This girl I was with is very tight at the entrance to her vagina. But inside, she is very wide. Since I am inexperienced, I have to ask you guys who have more experience - are all girls like that? If so, then how do you keep your erection inside her when your penis head isn’t being stimulated at all???
Thank you for your patience…