ED - Venous leakage, performance anxiety or psychological problem??
I’m wondering if I really have got a permanent ED or its just psychological or performance anxiety or venous leakage and of its curable or not??
Please take a moment to read and help me get through this hard time that sucking the best out of me. I feel like my life is ruined but still have hopes and trying to focus on positive and be strong.
About a year ago I met a lady aged 47 and I’m 22. We have been in relationship for +1year. Before that I never had sex, I had a great penis with a shining big head. Super strong and full hard when erections! After a few months of our relationship I started to feel I’m loosing my erection quality and I was already worried for my low timing. My lady used to say You think too much and not presented that’s why it’s hard for you to get erected the 2nd time. She was maybe correct I was thinking much!
Then I left sex for 8,9 months until now. We both were stressed and of course I’m still worried and so stressed and tense. Going through hard time of my life beyond this penis problem.
As I was already less confident so I saw thunders and other places and decided to work on my penis to be bigger. So I did about 4,5months of PE and got almost an inch in length while .2 in girth. The girth I lost back after I did some erected jelqing at 80,85% erection in the last month. Loosing girth made me feel bad and I decided to rest awhile. I stoped a month ago and now I am not feeling for more PE but concerned for my ED quality. I wish to have the dick I had befor I met the lady. I still love her but we are not together anymore!
I don’t so much blame PE, Sometimes I wonder if I did something wrong during PE but then I have a reason that NO I had it already before starting PE so… The only big reason I can see is that having sex with the older lady sucked my sex life. Her body level is different then mine. I’m much younger then her. How do you see this?
My ED Problem: I can get erections easily as normal people but they are like 80%, 90% and my glans does not get bigger as before, they are soft. Feels I push blood in by kegeling and it goes back to the body. I have to keep aroused by touch or like kegeling to keep this erections otherwise I most of the time will loose it in few seconds in normal daily life. Maybe during sex it is the same.
Anytime I touch under the shaft it feels a little sticky. What is that sign about?
I had sex a couple of weeks ago and the 1st time I cum in her mouth and the 2nd time I had an enter course. I had to push or press the base of my penis while pushing in (stroking in). Means bad quality of erection it was.
I’ll not mess any opportunity to got to checkup by a Dr as soon as possible.
I’m a strong young skinny boy who does explosive exercise, jumping, running and climbing etc and having no fate but good muscles.
1. Did you understand my problem? Give your honest opening if you think you have the same condition or experience of ED etc.
2. What do you think of the symptoms I wrote above, are they show a venous leakage, performance anxiety or psychological problem??
3. Your advice and opinion and sharing your experience or if you have been through any kind of Ed and how you cured or living with it, sharing here will help me get an idea to overcome my problem.
4. If there is any Dr here please mention so I can Pm him to get help will be greatly appreciated. Because I’m not in a position to get to a Dr easily.
5. Is Viagra or other pills etc can be used for all the life without damaging the dick more?
My English is not so good, hope you understand. Pardon me for typos.
Thanks in advance!