Couga, I you are either young, or are just used to ejaculating every time during sex. If either of this is the case, then it will be harder for you to do what we are talking about here. It may not feel as good. But in order to stay young, you may want to start thinking about not ejaculating as much.
The guys here who found ways to enjoy intercourse without ejaculation will never switch back to squirting every time. To me personally, a dry orgasm or a wet orgasm is just a relief at the end and not much more. It is not a goal in sex. I enjoy sex all throughout, having many orgasmic muscle spasms before I decide to have, or not to have, the real orgasm. Often, if I stop early, I will still be fully satisfied.
If you do it right, with channeling the energy and everything, it is healthy too. The Chinese have been doing this for centuries. I do not care what urologists say, they do not teach them this in medical school. Most of them don’t know much about sex, they only know how to help a guy pee, I know this from experience. They will also tell you that PE does not exist. And that the earth is flat.