Can I get have both?
I really like getting off quickly when I masturbate and have been like that for my whole adolescent life. However, it may have led to my quickness in ejaculating when having sex and after I masturbate I feel guilty for not edging it more and practicing. And then when I have sex, I blame quick masturbation. Mentally I know I want to last alot longer and enjoy having sex however I still want to be able to get off quickly when I masturbate and not feel like am doing something that will affect my performance, sexually, nor feel guilty or depressed afterwards, in either case.. Has anyone been able to master this idea?