Big Dong, but can't last long in the sack

I’ve never taken the time to measure the girth of my shaft, but it’s 8 to 8.5 inches in length when fully erect, depending on the level of stimulation. I’d say somewhere around 6 inches in girth. I’ve never done any stretching or other stuff, that’s the way the package came.

Jesus. You are at my long term goal for length. How big do you want to get? Please add some pics to the member pics forum, not many guys around here are as big as you.

Hit the stretching and the newbie routine and you’re gonna be huge. Good luck.

Truth!

Anyone ever try the fleshlight for lasting longer? It seems like it’d work pretty good.

I try the freshlight sometimes. It would be a great idea but unfortuantely it is a hassle to prepare and clean when all you really wanna do is wank. It’s like how much preperation do you need for a wank. None, you get horny you wank. Rather than get horny, prepare the fleshlight, get some lube, work your erection up then use it and then clean it out. Suppose you could view it like foreplay.

Also, sometimes when using it I just pause for a minute and think ‘WTF am I doing!!!!!!!!!!!’ and the erection subsides.

kingdong69 — Oh I don’t find it that bad.

Throw it in a bowl of warm water and go wank a while while it heats. (think of it as foreplay)
Lube yourself up, stick it in (if your erection went down a little during lube-up, it will now go up A LOT), and go at it.
3 2 1 BLASTOFF.

Then,
Stick it under the faucet and rinse it out for a minute or two
Wrap it in a towel and throw it in your bottom drawer to dry out

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I have been known to skip the warm-up — It will actually warm up pretty well because of your body temperature. Again just a simple rinse out with water is all you really need to do to clean it.
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To hoffy200 — they actually feel amazing. The orgasms can be **really strong.** If you want “realistic” go for the “wonderwave” texture. You could train yourself to last longer with that. Stamina training unit is supposed to be quite good for training.

I will say the first few times it is like “oh this feels good but big deal.” But the more you use it, the better and better it gets. There are some theories about why this is — main one is that we grip too damn hard when we masturbate and desensitize ourselves. But fleshlight is subtler more realistic stimulation that gradually re-sensitizes your penis. That is the theory and I found it to be true.

My problem now is that I hardly get to use mine since I started PE in December — PE workouts seemed to have pretty much replaced my masturbation time. But it is a great toy — the only regret I ever had was that I waited so long to get one.

Yeah the orgasms inside the fleshlight are amazing!!!

Once I get into it’s ok but sometimes I really feel stupid pounding away at it. If anyone every caught me I think I would die. lol

Sta-kool-

DO you do your edging/balloning in the fleshlight?

I KNOW!

I have this horrible fear that the dog is going to find mine somehow — she loves to steal my stuff and run around with it to irritate me.

Can you imagine having company over, and the dog comes running out with your mocha Vagina or pink Butthole fleshlight in her mouth?

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That’s a good idea! Ballooning for a while, then move to the fleshlight. I will try that.

haha funny shit man. I’m scared if my mum finds mine. What would you say to that???? She’s always sniffing round my room when I’m away, finding weed and shit. I’d rather she found a kilo of crack than my fleshlight.

Dunno where I’m gonna hide it, I’m going on holiday soon and getting para.

Put it inside your computer case — I bet there is room in there. She doesn’t use your computer does she???

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mr cool breeze — good luck with your problem. I am pretty sure if you take some of the good advice here you will work it out.

Who cares if people see or know. Everyone I knows I have a flesh light. I recommend them to everyone. No one thinks anything about girls having fake dicks to have sex with so why should it be different for us?

Even your mum knows?

As for the comp case thats a good idea. Will have to use the one without the window though.

The most amazing and unexpected thing happened to me yesterday, and it’s as a direct result of the advice I got from a member on this forum. I had a member PM me yesterday with some advice that I should purchase a bottle of Durex “Play Longer” lube. This product may have changed my bedroom life forever in just one night! I immediately looked it up online and found that there are many companies that make what are known as “desensitizing” lubes. Anyway this member recommended the Durex brand, so I decided to buy that brand since Durex is a reputable company. The first thing I did was a detailed Internet search on these lubes and read several user reviews. There were a bunch of mixed reviews, but most were at least semi-positive. The main complaint I read about was that the woman would occasionally get the same effects as the man. Anyway, I called this sex shop down the street and they had the stuff along with several other brands. I drove over and picked up a REALLY small tube of the stuff for about 6 bucks. I got home with the lube last night at 6:00. My girlfriend always gets home at 6:30, so I planned to be all warmed up my the time she got home. I called her cell phone when I knew she’d be on the way home, and told her about the situation. The anticipation was so great that I had a rock hard erection just thinking about it. I must have used half the tube, but I really saturated my dong and made sure I rubbed the stuff in like lotion. I re-applied the stuff 3 times while I waited for her to get home. I planned in my mind that I would rub all the Durex lube in completely, and then once the effects took place, I would slather the outside of my shaft with the regular KY lube that we use all the time, to help prevent her vaginal walls from becoming numb. The plan materialized perfectly!! My lady arrived home at the usual time, and we began getting it on immediately in the living room. I felt the anticipation was too great, so I had her perform oral for about five minutes prior to entry. During the oral I could totally feel the effects of the lube, so I spread open the gates and went in. I squirted a bunch of the KY on my shaft just before entry, as stated above, and the action started. The pleasure wasn’t quite as great for me as usual, but I humped her brains out for the better part of an hour at a fast pace, and she got off 3-4 times. I could have gone longer (feels great saying that), but I choose to end things early and eat dinner. She was so tired after dinner that she passed out at 8:30 and didn’t wake up till 7:00 am this morning. We just talked on the phone and the plan is set for a repeat tonight, and probably every other night for the rest of this year.

All I can say is God Bless this forum!

YEah, that’s why I use the condom, the numbing liquid is on the inside, so it doesn’t get on the female. But that seems to work with you. You are the same as me, feeling is not as great, but whatever. I’d rather fuck for an hour and have her cum a few times then fuck for 2 minutes, even if she does cum in the short time.