--Best way to Kegel? Also, how to make gradual climaxes?--
Hey, I have two quick questions. First off, in what state is it best to perform kegels? By state, I mean, is it best to perform them while erect, semi-erect, or flacid. Or does it not matter? I know that when I am erect, I have the most powerful/controlled kegels. What do you suggest?
Second, climaxes (orgasm). I don’t know what it is with me, but my climaxes happen much too suddenly. By suddenly, I do not mean quick (stamina). I mean that my penis could be receiving stimulation and it would feel good, but not very strong, but then all of a sudden it would feel incredibly strong and shortly after, I would climax.
For an analogy, my climaxes are more like an on-off switch, it’s either light pleasure or extreme pleasure/climax. It is not a gradual increase in pleasure. How can I change this? It makes it a tad difficult to control your orgasms when they happen so suddenly.