Am I just stressed and tired, or should I worry?
I’m coming from a strange period of time started by the half of last summer; I do a seasonal job that starts in may to end at about half october, during this time my working days are long even if not too much physically stressing and since then I don’t have the erections I was used to have before. I mean, the strange thing is that if I watch at a porn at home I can have it and last long enough but when I’m with a girl it seems I lack excitement, I mean, I can’t get it or I can’t have it last enough.
I was with a new girl and the situation was extremely nice, we both wanted to have sex but I was trying to shift the moment because I wasn’t ready, erection was hard to get and even harder to maintain while, usually, I can get it quick and maintain it for long time.
The fact is that it happened more than once and now, after 5 months, it’s pretty the same.
So, I hope that it’s because I’m not sleeping much and enough, I hope it’s because of my low blood pressure, because I’m emotionally stressed but I’m starting to think at this very often and it’s becoming a problem so, what should I do? I was thinking about trying with medicine like cialis but I’ve never had problems like those and I’m just in my 30s, what do I do? I can’t sleep more than I’m doing and, most of all, better than I’m doing, so, where do I start from? I better try to sleep to see what happens or I jump straight on medicine? My worry is that if I don’t get back to my usual sex habits soon I go worst and I loose that little bit of self confidence I have left, I would like to know if it is still working or not.
You know, as I’m pretty attractive I feel very uncomfortable with this problem and this avoids me to have a normal social life, I know that I don’t have to show my penis when I’m with people and that they don’t care but I’m feeling uncomfortable because people think of me as a sort of playboy while, in reality, I’m not but what it’s happening is really becoming a nightmare for me.
I know that this thread will be posted in another forum but at this moment I can’t post in the appropriate one as I have, probably, not enough posts on my shoulders.
Thank you even for reading it, I need to talk about this to someone but, as you can easily imagine, this isn’t easy.