Want more head!

Understood, and I understand Thunder’s eagerness to spank you as well. You bad, BAD…girl ;)

Hey, I had sex this morning!!! Of course it was only because my wife’s friend told her that sex might help her give birth sooner, but I’ll take it!

Great part about it was she gave me head and was grabbing my ass to pull me all the way into her throat. What makes that so good besides the obvious is that I didn’t use to reach that far and now I feel it in her throat and it makes her gag slightly (she didn’t seem to mind). The other good thing was I remembered to “communicate” to her that I really liked it when she did that (grabbed me and pulled me in). Then when I slid it in to her pussy she says…”Holy shit your dick is hard” I said “Oh yeah, you like that?” and she said “yyyeeaaahhh”.

So there may be hope, and its at least partially to do with PE. Physically I/we noticed harness and length differences today as well as the fact that I am trying to get more dialog going during sex so we can communicate our needs better.

A thank you to the good folks that replied to my thread.

I know just a horney bastard’s feel good story of the day!

I agree that once a week for many married women is an effort.

When things like kids, chores, etc start showing up in a woman’s life, sometimes the effect of giving herself to these things exhaust her too much to even think about giving herself to her guy. Do I agree with that? No. But that’s what happens.

Reminds me of a Woody Allen movie.. Annie Hall I think.

Each are talking to their psychiatrists and the psychiatrists ask each one “how often do you have sex?”

Woody Allen: “Hardly ever.. Once or twice a week”

Annie Hall: “Oh, all the time.. Once or twice a week”

Communication helps a bunch. My wife runs hot and cold so I’ve given up on any kind of consistent sexual routine. Timing is everything as well. Best to bring up any sexual needs when your wife is already quite sexual. Knowing when to communicate is more important than what you say IMO. When the time is right, you can at least make your needs known with less risk of it sounding pushy or whinny.

Good luck.

Bring flowers home with you and a “I have been thinking about you all day,” result, instant blow job.

Thanks guys, I guess it would be pushing it to have my zipper down when I give her the flowers?

Anyway, I am already slowly getting her into talking more during sex or just randomly about sex and it seems to be working well. She has been telling me that she is in the mood and the other night had a dream about us fucking. I asked and then she started to describe it to me. Then I was asking her about what she wants me to do to her when we get back into the swing of things (after she has baby). She was talking all this: “I want to ride you so hard and you make me cum and then you turn me over and stick it in my a**. I was like “oh OK, I think we might be able to manage that” so, Its working already.

I’m just a horny bastard and I need to make her more like me.

I’m so happy for you man. See all you needed to do was talk about things a little more to get them flares going! I hope everything keeps going good for you. And ill be checking back in on this thread to see how your doing. Good Luck! Keep her cumming!

Many thanks especially to you and Zane, you are the ones that made me realize what I needed to do. I have been able to get this going better already, all while she is due to pop a baby anytime now. Cant wait to get my vagina back after awhile lol! I will definitely keep you posted and probably need a few more suggestions from time to time.

Ha ha. OK man! Well if you ever need to talk or anything you can feel free to PM me anytime, I’m always here to help if I can.

Something I always keep in my mind is “not what my lover can do for me but what I can do for my lover”. Having sex is looking after your own needs (wanting head), making love is giving your partner pleasure, romance, feelings of being wanted and loved. Your pleasure comes from making your partner feel special. I love receiving oral sex but I love giving oral sex greater because I am giving to my partner. I have found a site fastsuduction.com where David Shade has posted articles. These articles may help you in pleasuring you partner in different ways and maybe your partner may returning the pleasures.

The same principle applies every day. When you wake up ask yourself “What can I do today to make my partner happy”. Don’t ask “what can my partner do today to make me happy”. With this in mind you just might get what you seek from your partner.

gg43, I can see where this thread may make me seem a bit selfish, especially starting with the title. Its too much to read but I believe if you went through my conversations with zaneblue and HeyHowAreYA you would see that this evolved into something a little more than “I want more oral” When my wife and I have intercourse I give her oral (which I enjoy greatly) 99% of the time and she orgasms clitorally multiple times and then we have regular intercourse where to be honest she probably orgasms 60-70% of the time, even though she would tell me each time she does, I can tell she doesn’t always.

I started this thread because I had recently read numerous other threads where the female partners where enjoying individually pleasuring their partners with oral. Since that hadn’t happened in about 5 years with my partner I thought I would see if I could find out the difference between me and them. What I found was it wasn’t that I was a “selfish” lover it was that I wasn’t communicating the things I enjoyed or asking her to communicate her desires either.

I also probably receive the most pleasure from intercourse when my partner is writhing around on the bed while I am stimulating her. Now, I will say that for the last 9 years I have put more of this feeling into our intercourse than my partner. I believe the reason isn’t that she doesn’t care but perhaps I wasn’t opening up to her enough. At least that’s how I plan my new approach.

Thanks for your response.

See, here’s where the wisdom comes in. If you’re the bloke, you bust your ass lightening up the load for her. That way you can return to that sex bomb era.

I look at it this way - you’re gonna pay for all that complexity in life. Want kids, a wife with a career (and income!), big house, all that crap? Fine. But if she is worn to the nub, then you pay via your dick. It’s your back or your dick - make up your mind.

While having sex last night my wife told me I was so hard and deep she could feel it in her throat.
I am barely PE’ing these days because of work load and changes in my life but I have kept my gains and am as hard as a….well a Spruce!

I love me some PE.