Let's create a monster, Dr Frankenstein!
Hello to all. Ive been a member here since 2003 and have enjoyed the benefits of PE. This place is amazing and has helped many of us who needed different answers for different symptoms.
I have learned many things from this place. If there is any good advice that I can offer to this community, it is that no matter how big or small you are; A woman loves a confident man. They also love a caring passionate man who wants to pleasure them. One thing I learned as a young man is that not all women are made to function the same. What works for one may not work on another. We as men need to realize we were not born with the knowledge how to pleasure a woman. If you want to be a great lover, all you need to do is say (Or in your own words) “Baby, what can I do to please you?” You will get different answers from different women. But you will pleasure more of them doing so rather than thinking you know what your doing. Be confident in your body and sexual ability. Continue PE because its best for our own ego and mind. But above all, ask them what they would like. You will become a great lover No matter if you have 3 or 10 inches.
Ok the reason for this thread is I am seeking help from the community members. I am 40 years old and am experiencing ED. I live a stressful life and it isn’t going to change anytime soon either. I always knew that at a certain age I would have this problem but not at 40!
I do get occasional morning wood. Not sure about night wood though. During intercourse “If” I get a good erection it doesn’t last long. I mean I can get hard and hump the wife till I come, but I cant take my time like I used to. If I take it out at all just for a few seconds it goes limp. Even in non stop intercourse it isn’t hard like it used to be.
Erections were never like it was when I was a teenager, but they were much better than now. It is getting to where I cant get erections for sex now. I mean some days yes, most days no. This has become a big problem in the last 6 months. My wife takes it as rejection but it isn’t.
I have been taking l-arginine lately but it doesn’t seem to help. I take 2000mg a day. It is helping me with circulation definitely. But not with erections. I also have been taking 1200mg of Lecithin (Heard it was good for semen volume). Ive been using these supplements for about 4 weeks now coupled with Kegel exercises with no results.
I am interested in using raw Ginseng but am not sure what kind. I am on a budget but I’m willing to spend to help my situation. I am also willing to try other supplements but would like to stay closer to the natural stuff. I will continue the L-Arginine because it has helped circulation overall, but I am looking for a good mixture of ingredients to boost libido and EQ.
I am not looking for a quick fix. I really don’t want to rely on Viagra Or Cialis. I understand I live a stressful life and am getting older. I know there can be some kind of mixture of supplements that will restore me back to good sexual, and overall health possibly better than before.
So it is to this vast group of experts and novices that I ask for advice. I would appreciate you giving your age when you reply. Although I will take all advice to heart, it would be nice to get advice from guys my age who have experienced the same problems.
I have faith in this site that I will receive the help I need. I want to one day be like Dr Frankenstein and say “It’s alive!!!! It’s alive!!!” And have this hulking monster pop up from under the sheets ready to reek havoc.
Help me do this; and I will donate $100 to this site in appreciation. Not a bribe, just a token of my appreciation. I’m getting up there in age, but feel too young to be going through this.