In the heat of the moment...
Guys, it’s good to see everyone again. I wish I could log in and talk more, but college is whipping butt pretty bad right now, and I’m graduating this May Anyone want to start offering me jobs??
Anyway, here’s my problem. New girlfriend, been dating a month now. I had some less than stellar experiences with women in my high school years, etc. and I’m not sure if it’s giving me psychological problem or not. I have no problem getting erections, they never seem to stop coming when I’m with my girl. The problem is that occasionally, maybe once every four times or so, my erection disappears in the blink of an eye right before I’m about to enter her. I thought initially I was just rejecting a new brand of condom I was using, but this isn’t the first girl this has happened with. Usually, after a couple weeks or a month, this problem goes away, but if there’s any way to make this problem go away fast, I’d like to hear it. It gets kind of annoying, as I’m sure you all can understand.
When this doesn’t happen, the sex is fantastic and we both really enjoy ourselves. I don’t want this in the back of my mind though, wondering if the problem is going to happen or not.
Any suggestions? I do all the right things with diet and exercise, I eat nuts, I take ginseng for stress. Just wondering what my problem might be.