Gentlemen I have heard of countless tales of couples who have had a child and no longer feel the same way about their partner like they used to (sexually) Both partners can be unsure of how they feel about each other in their relationship your both now responsible for another life, a life you have both created, have you wondered what your partner is thinking, feeling lildemon? if your not desiring her like you used to do you think she may have noticed? What if she was to start questioning her sex appeal? what if she was to think he no longer wants me, I refer you to your above post “Yes. other women turn me on..” Your lack of desire I would put down to the fact that the relationship has now changed and new responsibilities are coming into play, but the more you worry about things and stress about this and that the more your mind is not going to want to engage in sex (yes our minds are complex trust me) Have a quiet moment with just the two of you seduce each other I am not saying have sex but give each other an erotic massage after a romantic meal get to know each other as parents of a child. I am not as eloquent as I would like to be but I hope this has made sense.